My Top Priority Is Loving Myself

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In whatever you do in life, it's essential to put yourself first. To maintain mental and emotional health, you must learn to love yourself. Nobody will treat you properly the way you treated yourself.
Appreciate your worth and the person you are.
Have fun and often set aside special time for yourself.

Many people are facing difficulties in the world. Some are having financial difficulties (which in my opinion is one of the major problems of humans).
Some people are dealing with issues with their health, housing, relationships, etc.
These difficulties are the main causes of why we struggle to love and care for ourselves.

Another significant issue that has an impact on people's feelings of self-worth is inflation. A lot of payments need to be paid, and inflation is rising daily. Some people find it challenging to change their clothing after a few years. Some people hesitated to consume healthy meals because they had debts to pay.
I think it's important to take care of ourselves, no matter what; it shows kindness and respect for ourselves.

I used to give one of my friend's advice on how to properly care for himself. The guy occasionally spends every day of the week working nonstop. He won't even buy or consume healthy stuff. I questioned him about why he was being so cruel to himself. He helped me understand that he has a lot he wants to accomplish in the next few years.

Even though he has already built a house, he recently purchased additional land to begin work on yet another home project. While this is a smart choice, he is also denying himself some fun and leisure.
I assured him that he could pamper himself while still working on his project since loving himself is the most essential thing.

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Since I have realized that self-love cannot be reached overnight, I frequently take care of myself. Due to the nature of my job, I'm always busy. I frequently eat well at work.
I visit restaurants for food and drinks because I used to travel a lot. When I'm in a new place, I ask around for recommendations for the best restaurants. I don't care about the cost because I know that good things are not cheap.

A healthy diet should be viewed as the top priority in life because it is so crucial.
Having a balanced diet protects the heart, strengthens the bones, and keeps you healthy.
Once you get it wrong with your food hygiene. You will have health issues.
That's why I always eat good food. I occasionally cooked vegetables and purchased a lot of fruits often.

After treating myself to healthy foods, I will go shopping for clothes and footwear so that I can look gorgeous.
Looking good is paramount, despite having a lot of money, some people choose to dress anyhow.
The most crucial thing is to always dress well and appear good, even if you don't need to buy the most costly clothing or shoes.
Sometimes I wear inexpensive clothes, but if I pair them well with my footwear, everything looks stunning, and people often compliment my fashion sense.

Another strategy I employ is relaxation; the majority of my coworkers find it difficult to relax.


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Relaxing at a cool place.

They always work without a day off till their body breaks down.
I don't wait till my body breaks down till I give myself rest. Sometimes during working hours and I found out that I'm feeling dizzy or I need some rest. I will go to the nearest relaxation centre to have some rest.

I don't work day in and day out, and sometimes I would go two days without working at all. Instead, I will just eat, sleep, and browse the internet.

I used to enjoy myself too. Last year, I visited three different states to have a good time, observe the topography, and check the architectural designs. I constantly learn new things and keep up with innovations, which benefits my engineering profession.

In conclusion, self-love is a continuous routine, it's a journey that requires dedication and a lot of patience.
It's important to love and value yourself, this is a major key to living a happier and more fulfilling life.

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Just keep doing this one day you will definitely love yourself. Busy job is my problem too but we can't do anything in it because job is also very important.
Keep growing and going.

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Job is very important, but we need to find time to care for ourselves.
Thank you for stopping by.

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I totally agree with you. When you are at ease with yourself, then you can manage life better. To be at ease with yourself, you have to care for yourself. Thank you for sharing

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You are very right, thank you for stopping by.

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We should value ourselves more and not be distracted with goals to achieve, thereby, depriving ourselves of the good treatment we ought to have on ourselves. It is not all about working every time and forgetting about ourselves. Time will tell, and we would regret not doing what really matters to us.

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You have made some valid points here and I agree with everything.
We should treat ourselves very well often.
Thank you for stopping by dear

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No matter how much we want to make it in life by working so hard we must take good care of ourselves because when there is good health we will enjoy all what we have worked so hard for

Your friend should slow down a bit because the lifespan of work is longer than that of a human life

Nice food you've gat there
I love taking care of myself a lot and that is why I always take off day at work relax and eat good food

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You really make sense with this comment, our life should be more important than anything else.
Work is important, but our life span as you said it's longer than our work.

Thank you for stopping by

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It is good to work hard but we should always remember the essence of the work or aren't we working to take good care of ourselves?

Taking a moment to appreciate ourselves is important, it gives us a good reason to continue the hustle.

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Perfectly said bro, we should always put ourselves ahead.
Thank you for stopping by bro

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exactly o, we must find time to give ourselves that care or rest the body needs

got this post on #dreemport

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Mehn... Putting yourself first can be tough. Especially when you are used to placing the interest of others above yours. The change will not come easy. But then, its something we all would have to learn sooner or later.

Thank you for sharing this with us.

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Thank you so much for stopping by bro, you have made some valid points here.
We should make ourselves the top priority.

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