Don't spend time trying to change someone "
It's no use wanting to waste your time trying to change someone you don't want, the priority must be yours. It's normal to have many people who will accompany us throughout our life, but when you get into changing a person, actually who changes is yourself.
Even if you try to change someone, you may notice that you end up absorbing what you yourself said so much to the other and you learn and awaken yourself. Sometimes we are the ones who need to change because we are already going downhill.
Try to align your life with those who are open-minded and positive in life to achieve the ideals of life. You've already noticed that it's hard to influence people, but it's easy to be influenced by them, even worse if you're negatively influenced.
It's time to think and reflect that it's time for change to happen in ourselves and not in others, after all, our life depends on ourselves, and not on others.
Your dreams are yours, your life is yours.
Saludos amiga @anacristinasilva, realmente tuve que aprender eso, de una manera que no fue nada agradable, con un ser muy cercano, pero finalmente aprendí, que no se puede tratar de cambiar a nadie, ya que cada quien tiene un aprendizaje diferente y un propósito diferente en la vida y todo es perfecto dentro de su imperfección. He aprendido que uno debe cambiar uno mismo y cambiará el entorno. Todo dependerá del cristal con que lo mires. Buen post amiga. Ademas es hora de centrarse en uno mismo y esa luz irradiará hacia el exterior.
Gracias amigo. Esta es una verdad que debemos aceptar de por vida ... el cambio debe ocurrir dentro de cada uno de nosotros y con él todo lo que nos rodea cambiará.
Podemos decirle a cualquiera lo que debe cambiar de acuerdo a nuestra perspectiva, pero no siempre vamos a lograr que esa persona vea las cosas tal como nosotros las estamos viendo. Incluso podemos tomarlo como una cruzada que debemos tener, pero muchas veces nuestros esfuerzos resultan en vano y podemos salir lastimados en muchos aspectos. Nadie cambia si no quiere cambiar en realidad. Mi abuela decia "cada cabeza es un mundo" y cada quien hace de el lo que mejor le parece.
cada persona tiene una razón diferente y cambia cuando quiere, no tiene sentido ordenarles que cambien.
Correcto...cada quien decide, asume las consecuencias y cambia si le parece😉
So thoughtful of you dear. I believe you can't change someone unless the person self wanted to, so it's just waste of time and energy forcing yourself on a person and yeah true sometimes we ourselves end up changed. It's better to give chance and encouragement to a person and be the support system instead of changing someone. It's your life and no one else can direct it and also no one else actions can control you life too. Work on yourself and help others achieve the best version of theirs. 😊🙏
All right, we must work on ourselves, and make the change we expect from the world.
@anacristinasilva ,nice one from you,we don't have the right or ability to change any body, people are always the Carrier of thier understanding,even when we try to change people,we tend to look like a bad people cause it is like telling them that their understanding about certain things are wrong which at times might be very through, my father do say you should not expect people around you to think the same way you are thinking,which means we all have right or freedom to how we use our brain and what will use them for,we can't change people,but they tend to change at times to what we want when they have see a valuable reasons in how we see things , people changes on their.own just like the word change is constant,but forcing it is not advisable
It's true, everyone has their own way of thinking and acting.
You right on this but you know one thing in life is CHANGE is constant. So is either you change someone or you end up being changed, one will surely happen.
There is not benefit or profit in forcing change on someone because the more you do that the more you compromise yourself for the person.
We humans are easily influenced without us knowing we are already going through the process of change. So I urge everyone to seek after positivity in other not to caught up with negativity.
We have to be always in evolution and for that we must make the changes in ourselves because the world is in constant evolution and if we don't follow what is proposed, we are left behind.