“Do you have any fetish?” he asked.
And was I like, “what is fetish? What does it mean?”

That was the first time in my twenty “something” years that I heard about the word fetish, so quickly I googled it and realized that it was some sort of sexual desire you have. Then I was like “oh, I see”, as I read further I discovered so much that I was left in awe. It was not just about having a fetish but having an extreme or obsessive sexual need or desire, some weird shit some people engage in just in the name of fulfilling their sexual desires.

Now I am not here to judge anyone, we all have our own boats to paddle, so you might as well paddle your boat, however I find them uncomfortable and really scary weird and whatever is on here are my opinions...you can have yours.

LET’S TALK FETISH

FEET/OBJECTS

Those with this fetish usually get turned on by feet, touching them or even the mere thought of them is a turn on. The guy I spoke of initially has a fetish about feet...girls feet or just feet can’t really say. He likes for a girl to ride his feet..yeah, like seriously. I mean how can a girl ride a feet!! Yeah it is really weird to me but what do I know, some people actually find it enjoyable and fun.

In his words “I want a girl to ride my feet with her holes as I stretch her and she can feel my toenails scrape against her cunt walls”...how do you feel about that? While some wants their partners feet in their mouth, some others takes to smelling their partner’s feet. Honestly I was shocked with this discovery and of course, I know how most people like to be experimental with their sex life but....

FISTING

When I saw a picture explanation for this, I was like “wow, so a fist can fit in there”. Yeah, that was my first thought because I can’t imagine how that must feel like. I mean isn’t painful? Not like you going to give birth to a baby. Those in this category desires putting up their fist in there....finding it enjoyable sexually as they drive their partner up the moon with sexual pleasure.

DIAPER THINGY

Just like how a mother cares and nurtures her child, wearing the baby diapers and you know the care and love that comes with it. This person enjoys being treated as such, he wants his woman to wear him diapers, nurture him in that same way, he wants to be submissive to his woman,more like assuming the role of a baby. I once met someone like that who said having his woman wear him diapers makes him feel safe and cared for and it turns him on. Sitting on his partners lap and she spanking him naughty makes him a good boy. I don’t understand but okay...I guess.

CUCKOLDLING

This is another weird one I can’t believe even till now. Those in this category enjoys and feel aroused when watching their partner sleep with someone else. Yeah you heard me, weird right? They enjoy watching their partner have sex with another person, it is agreed on by both parties and they are comfortable with the act. It also depends on how deep both parties are willing to go, some just scratch the surface as they made do with listening to their partner talk about having sex with someone else while others as their spouse flirt with the opposite sex.

BALLOON FETISH

It gets weirder here guys, as the name implies those in this category have a thing for balloons...there are the poppers, non-poppers and looners. Here they use balloons as a sex toy, they get aroused by just playing with them and actually have sex with the balloons. According to an article I read of someone who is actually into this, “the risk of them popping is thrilling”. How they actually engage in the act is unknown to me but it is just really strange.

RAPE FETISH/FANTASY

Well, like the an artist sang in her song “Crazy things are happening” and I actually believe that now. When you hear the word rape, I bet the first thing that comes to mind is sex by force, forcefully having sex with another person without his or her content. The only difference here is that, this other person is actually consenting to it but the act in itself will be portrayed like a typical rape. The control, the force or should I say rough sex...they want to be handled that same way. They want to be gagged, slapped, and basically have a full experience of whatever it is to satisfy their desires or fantasy.

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There are a whole lot of fetish out there being explored by people, some I can't even begin to write about or fathom how anyone would enjoy it. However, the world is evolving and things are happening...might not be for some though...I just hope we know where to draw the line. Exploring our sexual desires is great but some things we have to rethink. Yeah...I know it goes beyond that. I heard some go as far as using electricity to generate a shock...can't really explain it but yeah things like that.

....and for those who are not into the weird things, you all need to ask questions before getting into a relationship. Don't just go into a relationship without knowing what you partner sexual desires are so as not to be caught unwares. If is something you are comfortable with then "merry away" if not take a walk.

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