I WISH I COULD TURN THE HANDS OF TIME,THE DIFFICULTIES OF BEING AN ADULT

Back then when I was still very young, growing into an adult was one of things I so much desired.i always feel like being an adult is the best thing to any person in life,yeah of course being an adult is very good but it comes with a lot of responsibilities.they said to whom much is given,much is expected and thats just what exactly adulthood is all about.you will have alot to cater for as you grow older not just myself alone even down to families and people around you.

When I was still very young I enjoyed alot of things which I never new I won't be getting when I become an adult,my clothing and feeding are all provided by my parent,my schooling was also taking care off as well, so I only have little to contribute as a young child of my parent.but you know even despite being young some responsibility are still accorded to you such as running errands,doing some chores like washing of plates,sweeping ,cooking and some other things.sometime the chores can be very hectic that you become so tired and the type of family I came from is type where all the children are been made to do most of the house chores,the believe is that this will prepare us better out there and be able to things on my own when my parents are not there.

Yeah no doubt that all the training has actually helped me when I set out living on my own . as at that time that I was doing all the house chores,I was tired of it, that I wish for nothing but to grow into an adult because I thought that would set me free from the control of my parent's.but little did I know what adulthood is all about.then I get to admire adults a lot because I feel they are under nobody's control,even sometimes I get jealous of my parent thinking that they control me a lot.

Now I have grown into an adult and faced with the onus of doing things on my own and even overseeing some responsibility's in the family.i must be honest it's never easy being an adult,in short it is the hardest part of life so far to me,I didn't know how much I was benefiting when I still under the guidance of my parents.but because of the little house chores I was doing keeps making me to think that adulthood is the sweetest life to live.

I think I would be right to say adulthood is a scam,yeah! total scam.i have been denied of my childhood benefits that I used to get from my parents when I was still very young but since became an adult all of those benefits has stopped,now I cloth myself,feed myself,pay my house rent myself which is something not easy at,sometimes I just wish I could turn back the hands of time to become the young me again.obviously adulthood is very challenging and tasking.now I understand what parents go through to take care of their children.but despite all the hassle surrounding adulthood I can't regret growing into an adult because it also has its advantages aswell.although it's nice to get what you want with less stress which is something associated with my childhood because my parents takes care of my needs.

Apart from the fact that you have your need to take care of ,your younger once are also looking up to you in providing them with certain things.sometimes I am saddle with the responsibility of even paying my siblings school fees and the worst part is that you could be in need and nobody will be there to help because everyone believe that as an adult you should be able to do everything yourself.

Well this is life where I can only do little to change the hands of time.in life transformation is always necessary and everyone will have to go through it.so all I have is to enjoy my adulthood while it last but I still wish I could turn back the hands of time