This is how we change the world. (An important lesson I learned while on holiday).

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I learned so very much on this holiday. I finally, really deeply get how privileged I am to have all the resources I have. It's so easy in a culture that gets us to focus on what's missing, what we don't have, what we should pursue, what we should buy, etc to feel like we never have enough.

It's a guise. It keeps us wanting. It keeps us distracted from more important things. Like all the incredible resources we already have. Like all the clean water running to our home, food in our kitchen, electricity and internet on-demand.

And all of that sits on top of a community of friends, safe streets where we can drive and walk and cycle, generally reasonable and generally stable political systems, hospitals, educational institutions, etc.

In short, I have so much, and during this holiday I finally got to see what was there all along. A culture of striving, a culture of "more", a culture that teaches and reinforces "not good enough unless you have..." can't fool me any longer.

A ridiculous, unnecessary war began while I was preparing for a 2 1/2 week holiday that would see me fly to three different parts of my own country and see two different branches of my family.

A huge number of towns were flooded and the town I went to university in 20 years ago was flattened by unprecedented amounts of rain while I was sleeping safe and sound in a high end hotel room in one of the most expensive cities in the world.

I read posts from my fellow Hiveans who were struggling with conditions in their own villages, towns or cities that I've never had to face in my life. I read these posts on a laptop I own, using internet from a smartphone that I own, while I sat one lovely apartment after another as we drove our way around the beautiful state of Tasmania, doing things so many people globally will never ever be able to do in their lifetime.

I don't write this post to show off to anyone who may be living a life that doesn't afford them the same privileges I've just mentioned; I have zero desire to show off. In fact, it pains me that not everyone in the world can visit the beautiful places I've seen in the last 3 weeks, let alone the fact that still so much of the world does not have access to safe living conditions, clean water and sufficient, nutritionally adequate food.

I write this post because I finally get it. I finally actually get that I'm in that tiny percentage of the people globally who have so very much it's astounding. I'm no longer looking at the people who have so much more than me. They exist, for sure. There's still plenty of them, but nowhere near as many as the multitude of people I could lift up from my position of privilege if only I remember to look in the right direction; to the majority, not the ultra-wealthy minority.

I've been hearing the saying, "With great power comes great responsibility" forever. I thought it applied to other people, people who were far wealthier than me, who ran much larger companies than me, people who were leading much bigger communities than me. I didn't realise it also applied to me.

Anyone who has as much access to the same kind of resources as me (clean water, food, air + a safe home, school, workplace + electricity, internet, devices + family, friends, community) has so much power and they may not even realise it.

The way we lift the living conditions of our average earthly citizen is by realising first just how much we, the wealthy minority, already have. Once we realise how powerful we are, then, and only then can we use that power to change the world.

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[This was going to be a post about the 6,826 steps I did today, that concluded with arriving home to find this gorgeous little critter (gecko) at our front door. How I have missed these guys while in colder climates these last few weeks. Thanks Brad for snapping this photo :)

I was going to tell you how I have a huge pile of paperwork to get through before I start a new job next week and how Hive has to take a back seat for a few weeks while I settle into a new routine here at home. I was going to tell you how I did very little exercise because I'm on Day 2 of my Menstrual Cycle and spent much of the day on the couch... until the still-unpacked suitcase bugged me too much.

I was going to tell you that I'm pretty tired from my trip, grateful but tired, and expect to spend the next few days catching up on life admin, business admin and cleaning of this big 'ole house.

But my heart had things it wanted to say. And out of my fingertips poured the words that most needed to be said. So this might be an exhaust post. And I might be physically, mentally and emotionally exhausted from a whole range of things happening in my life and the world right now. But I am on fire with clarity about all that I have and all that I am, and want nothing more than that clarity to burn through all the old dross and all the old stories about who I am, and who I've been and leave nothing but untethered confidence about my ability to change the world.

I hope my words have sparked something in you too about all you have and all you are.]



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What a fantastic post!!! Thank you so much for writing it and reminding us to be grateful for all that we have! Only in that way we can live healthily and appreciate ourselves and others!

Anyone who has as much access to the same kind of resources as me (clean water, food, air + a safe home, school, workplace + electricity, internet, devices + family, friends, community) has so much power and they may not even realise it.

This is huge! We are bombarded by a TV that we are stupid, powerless, etc... Only "experts' know everything, but in a nutshell, we are powerful, but we tend to forget that too often...


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This is incredibly beautiful, seeing the privilege first and speaking on it instead of the things that exhaust you, even though those things are valid.

I have also spent some time focusing on what I have instead if what I don't and it has aided me, especially in areas of mental health.

Anyways, you should get some rest, you need it.

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It’s look very scarry for me 😂

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The gecko (lizard)? Is that what looks scary?

It is a great close up but in reality the gecko is very small and only dangerous for you if you were a very small bug that it wants to eat!

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This is a wonderful post and it took me back to my time in Africa.
When I was 24 I got a job working for Shell on a quite remote oil and gas terminal in Gabon in West Africa. IT was next to the jungle. During my first trip there, I went out exploring with my jeep in the jungle and came across a small village of three houses, when I say houses I mean shacks. These people had one goal for the day, to get food to eat. From that moment onwards it put my life into perspective
I would come back from leave every three months with my suitcases full of things, shoes clothes etc to give to all the locals. We in the west do not comprehend poverty. Whenever I go in the world I always try to give back to the community where I am staying.
The bottom line is that we do not know how lucky we have it.

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Offt. Gosh I feel the sincerity of this, my friend. I'm grateful to find another who really gets what I'm speaking to (and by the sounds of it you get it more deeply than I currently do). Thank you for your thoughtful, honest reply. I look forward to consuming more of your writing in the days, months, years to come as I immensely appreciate this kind of depth when I find it🙏

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Yes it touched me, my father would tell people that I would give a stranger the shirt off my back and then worry about myself afterwards.
The world is in a sad place, but if we can help as many as we can, then we are doing a pretty bloody good job!
Thank you for those kind words and have a magical weekend🙏

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