TRUST!!!

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Trust is a decision; it is not based on specific facts or statistics concerning the reliability of a person. Trust is a muscle, and the more you exercise it, the larger your trust muscle becomes, making it easier to trust. The majority of people's trust muscles have atrophied, leaving them unable to trust anybody or anything, including themselves, and living in perpetual dread and terror. All of the above, however, are qualities of trust rather than definitions.

TRUST IS MORE IMPORTANT THAN ANYTHING ELSE; Mindfulness, anxiety, mindfucks, and fearlessness. We are at peace when we trust, just as children are when they play happily, trusting the essential truth that every little boy and girl knows without a doubt: that everything will be well, and that their parents love them just the way they are. When this trust is broken for any reason, our innocence is broken as well.

Trust is the belief that another person will not harm or exploit you.

All relationships are built on the foundation of trust, which is a vital precondition. Trust is the primary lubricant of all social, commercial, romantic, and familial interactions, as well as the glue that ties people together. You can display vulnerability or otherwise let down your guard around specific people because you trust them. Barriers are broken down by trust.

Trust can be earned by being open and honest with others and demonstrating that you can be trusted by acting fairly and wisely in social situations, financial transactions, times of stress or emergency, and so on.

For me, trust entails an unwavering believe in a person. It is the foundation of all and any of our relationships. It is the essence of the elixir of love.

The two sides of the same coin are trust and honesty.

The amount of trust I have in someone is directly proportionate to how honest they are with me in the relationship.

Trust, like any other relationship attribute, takes time to develop, but once established, it grows in a geometric progression.

There exists unconditional belief and trust when any individual, however powerful he may be, summons against the person you have faith in and you continue to believe the person.

What causes people to lose faith?

Trust is like a forest; it takes a year for it to mature and bloom. However, a smidgeon of irresponsibility and a smidgeon of betrayal can burn down an entire forest, leaving no trees for shelter, and it takes an eternity to rebuild the same forest.

Though an apology will not prevent it from burning, it will assist to heal the wounds produced by the betrayal and facilitate forgiveness.

Nonetheless, the forest will never be a safe haven for the deceived individual.

Be truthful if you want to be trusted.

If you want to trust someone, trust their actions rather than their words and wait for the truth to emerge. There is no other option.

Let's put it in techie terms!

The function of trust contains two parameters: 1.Risk and 2.Person (or an animal, an organization, institution etc.).

In general, when the danger level rises, so does trust. When something important is at issue, we constantly want to limit our trust; in other words, trust is a declining function in relation to risk.

However, it is also dependent on the individual in question. Obviously, we all assign different valuations to various people in our lives. Trust is more important for persons who have more value. We all have a higher level of trust for the individuals we value the most in our lives. As a result, when it comes to individuals, trust is becoming increasingly important.

Always remember to consider these factors the next time you put your faith in someone!

A individual began walking on a rope that was tethered between two tall towers. He was balancing a lengthy stick in his hands as he walked slowly. His son is perched on his shoulders.

Everyone on the ground was strained and watching him with bated breath. Everyone clapped, whistled, and greeted him as he slowly approached the second tower. They exchanged handshakes and selfies.

"Do you all believe I can walk back on the same rope now from this side to that side?" he asked the gathering.

"Yes,Yes,you can," the crowd yelled in unison. "Do you trust me?" he inquired. They responded, "Yes, yes, yes, yes, yes, yes, yes, yes, yes, yes, yes, yes, yes, yes, yes, yes, yes

He said, "OK, may any of you sit on my shoulder, and I'll safely transport you to the other side."

There was a startled pause. Everyone fell silent.

Belief is not the same as faith. The concept of trust is unique. You will require Trust in order to be successful.

A individual began walking on a rope that was tethered between two tall towers. He was balancing a lengthy stick in his hands as he walked slowly. His son is perched on his shoulders.

Everyone on the ground was strained and watching him with bated breath. Everyone clapped, whistled, and greeted him as he slowly approached the second tower. They exchanged handshakes and selfies.

"Do you all believe I can walk back on the same rope now from this side to that side?" he asked the gathering.

"Yes,Yes,you can," the crowd yelled in unison. "Do you trust me?" he inquired. They responded, "Yes, yes, yes, yes, yes, yes, yes, yes, yes, yes, yes, yes, yes, yes, yes, yes, yes

He said, "OK, may any of you sit on my shoulder, and I'll safely transport you to the other side."

There was a startled pause. Everyone fell silent.

Belief is not the same as faith. The concept of trust is unique. You will require Trust in order to be successful.

Trust is like some kind of chemistry that you have/need to form a companionship with a stranger you might eventually befriend.

If you've grown up in an abusive childhood, chances are you may be refusing to trust other people because mistrust has already been ingrained into your brain growing up.

But if you're from a healthy childhood without any mental/psychological verbal attacks from your parents, that means they could be kind, loving and caring parents who go out of their way to protect you from bad outside influences.

Well, let me share a story from my life …

Almost everyday, me and my best friend go for a short hangout for sometime. He recently bought a new scooty. So, that scooty is our only chariot for the hangout. As he is the owner, most of the time he drives it.

It’s true that he is quite accemeartor-happy; but his driving is pretty well. So on a day like this, when I was on the backseat & the scooty was running, I suddenly noticed that his hands were neither on the accelearotor on the brake, just completely off the scooty’s handle/steering. It was just same as riding cycle without grabbing the handle. So , I was startled & panick-stricken of course. Surely, it looks dangerous.But I calm myself down & let the time pass. Reaching home, I asked him about this, he laughed and said oh you noticed today? Congo! you noticed at least.

Point is , He did that thing many times even before that day when I was on the backseat. But I didn’t notice. So, I did not panick. I felt safe. No accident happened too.

But when On that day, I noticed it, I was startled. If I panicked/ expressed an outburst after noticing it on that very moment, we may had an accident.

Still I ride on his scooty, still he does that freaky thing often. But now, I feel safe again.

This is Trust.

‘Coz I believe in him, I believe in his driving. Accidents are accidents. They are unplanned, may occur without notice anytime accidentally, no matter if we are right or wrong. But, trust is a treasure which is worth having and giving.

I think absolute trust between two people is a concept only, but one that people wish so badly existed that they think and act and speak and believe as though it does, but it does not, and this is not my opinion, it is simply truth because one can never truly know with certainty what is in another person’s mind the same way you can know what is in your own mind. It is one of the many harsh truths of life and the vast majority has a horrible time accepting or even acknowledging those harsh truths. People will trust someone, or think they can, and then when that person lets them down they’re totally astonished and devastated. The only one you can trust 100% in this life is yourself.

My favourite post is Trust the process and keep going by https://peakd.com/@merit.ahama

My favourite quote:

Does it work for you that way? Like do you really feel better after you sob or cry over your failed plan? Maybe to an extent it does but is that what one is supposed to do?