Interacting with the people you meet in life // التفاعل مع الأشخاص الذين تقابلهم في الحياة

There is a reason and a mission for every human being who crosses your path cycle in life. Many single men or women fall into the wrong hands at one point in life or the other because they allow their emotions to overshadow their thoughts and judgment. Yes, sure we humans want to love someone and get love in return as the heart tends to grow more fond of love when needed, but it is always important to know how to control our emotions when dealing with people at one point or another in our lives because no one should come On your way to be your wife or best friend. This is the main reason why life is a mystery.

All meetings in life have a purpose

1. Meeting Helpers: There is a reason to meet that person along your way. It's not a coincidence or coincidence, but it is destined to happen at that particular point in your life. When you meet your assistant and he continues to help you, there will come a time when situations may change in a way that this assistant may not be available to continue to help you as before. When this moment comes, you should definitely know that this person's time in your life is over. When that time comes, just let them go. Constant adherence to it may not lead to the expected result that you need. Whatever help you get, make sure you do the same for other people who need your help as well and learn to appreciate those who have helped you along your life's journey.

2. Meeting Friends: Every day we meet with new faces and make friends too, but it is worth noting that not everyone you meet is expected to be your friend. It is better to put some people at a distance to make casual friendships while others can be side friends, but one friend among your friends is sure to be your best friend. The best friend is chosen through proper scrutiny to ensure that it is not a friend who is capable of harming you. Such a person should be a friend in need because the old saying goes “a friend in need is really a friend”. So, you are expected to filter the type of your friends. Make your friends people you can learn from and who can instill positive values ​​in your life. Never neglect a friend who needs your support to grow too.
   There is this tendency to make old people our friends to learn from. This is fine, but it does not apply in all cases. There are younger friends who can be better too. When you ignore people based on the fact that you are above them in standard then when those people later reach your level or above your level they are bound to ignore you too. Know that wisdom is not only limited to the elderly because some young people are also the guardians of wisdom and this is the biggest reason for the developments we see in the world today. Life changes because it is seasonal and interchangeable.

When having a friend ensure you make them better has they do the same for you too. "20 friends can never live together for 20 years." So there's a moment one thing or the other will definitely separate you guys, but make sure you make positive impacts in their life as they do to you too. Whenever the time of their presence in your life has elapse; let them go for another person to come in.

When you find a valuable friend, stick to them and let them know how valuable they are to you. If such a person is an opposite sex, be careful of how you relate with such an individual. Never let your emotion overrule your thoughts and judgement. Be careful and wise as a serpent. never start a process you cannot sustain for long. Never go on a relationship with such a best friend when you know it might later not workout between you guys. Get to truly confirm whom they are either from their other friends and relations. Know their Dos and Donts, merit and dismerit, temperament and character and ensure they are what you can bear for a lifetime. Pray about them to get more revelations and confirmation on whether to embark on a courtship journey with them or not when courtesy demand you both. Be careful when taking steps in life in order not to regret it later on.