LESSONS MUST BE LEARNT FROM SAD & UGLY EXPERIENCES

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In life we experience different phases, the good, the bad and the ugly. These experiences whether we like it or not is what make us what we are as an individual. Some of these experiences moulded us into the person we are today and in some cases due to our human nature we resisted the change that some of our life experiences may have effected in our lives.

We are fond of detesting the memories of the ugly experiences we have had in the past not minding if they were instrumental to our growth. The hate that we have towards these experiences is due to the pain, loss and embarrassment that it costed us. However, this should not be so. We should learn lessons from those painful experiences and next time we'd not be falling into same traps.

These ugly, and painful experiences will give us a chance to become more aware of our environment by making wise decisions. If you are someone who was tricked into investing your money into a scam scheme, it would be a big lesson learnt for you to be careful in the future. You'd be conversant with the style that they use and when you see one you'd quickly flee or even confront him or her. In other words, the loss of your hard-earned money have made you become wiser.

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The decisions that made you loss your money, the ones that costed you your relationship, the ones that costed you some of the good things of life have added more value to your life, it may be big or small. At that point it may make you feel feel pretty down to the extent of feeling that the world is against you but they are only going to make your life better on the long run if only you make use of the lessons learnt.

Yes, I said if only you make use of the lessons learnt. You won't grow if you do not allow these experiences to shape you because of the hate that you have towards them. There is nothing good that come from hate. Hate will always spoil something that is good. For instance, if you refuse to move on and forget the funds that you have lost you will spend days and months thinking about it and you'd not be able to make any progress. Hate will only show you the negatives in situations and this isn't helpful.

There are times in some people's life that it was difficult to clothe or feed and life was tiring that you wanted to end it all. These phase of your life can be painful but it has shaped your life and this is why you should be thankful rather than being full with hate. It may be as a result of these phase that you decide to work harder to make ends meet (shaping your finances). When life gets better and you can afford these things, you should look back and be grateful for how far you have come and not start feeling bad on the thoughts of those experiences.

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If you refuse to let go of the hate you have for these tough and difficult moments of your life, then you may miss out in double folds. You would not be able to learn the important life lessons that you are supposed to learn and you may easily fall a victim of the same circumstance again. Too bad!