How do I write this post and get your attention without all the judgment that might come with it? A lot of people might think I'm wicked to go at the matter the way I'm going at it.

The story is

After having a couple of drinks and hanging out it turned out this person is a very cool person to be with.

This story is not mine...I have to state it perfectly cause I fear that people will one day read this and start saying things about my relationship and that might make things weird.

This is the story of some dude who sent a message at The Bill Bur Monday Morning Podcast.

Bill cracked a couple of jokes about if it was a full trans or if they still had their genital and all that but he later fell back to advising the person the way he typically does.

The fact is it would be amazing to live in a world where we wouldn't be judged because of the way we feel inside but that's life. It is probably why she kept it to herself. Or maybe that's not how dates go..you know? You don't go off telling people deep stuff so early on in the date...I don't know...

The LGBTQ+ community is a relatively new one

To the world and even to themselves. I know they don't understand everything about how their mind works because nobody really does.

I can't remember what Bill's advice was but it went along the lines of life sucks. People should be able to say how they feel and those who mind shouldn't matter and those that matter shouldn't mind. But we are social beings and those who mind matter at times. -Coined from Dr. Seuss

If I was advising the guy I'd tell him to take steps back and really listen to how he feels about the relationship. A lot of the things he fears may come to light and in ways he doesn't expect.

I have heard a lot being said by the extreme left about how if you can't date a transwoman you are transphobic...I don't think phobia should be thrown around that way.

Some black transwomen have been killed

Because they tried being in a relationship with straight cis men and when the men found out they decided murder was the way to go. Evidently, transwomen are putting themselves at so much risk to be this way...I don't think it is solely to upset people...but I understand being upset at the fact that you made connections with someone and person is not what you thought the person was supposed to be.

Murder is a bigger topic and a new folder is the murder of transwomen. I think the community should first start with having a place for themselves so those who chose to hang out in those places are choosing them.

At least while people plan on killing them. I think that is prudent?

Anyway, those are my thoughts let me know what you think in the comment section.

Remember to have a lovely week and don't Troll on the post, it has the potential to be very offensive.