More You Adjust with People. They Learn to Take Advantage of You.
We all are programmed to adjust with each other. And we tend to make a lot of mistake of trusting the people. And that leads to more or less problems in our everyday life. You can see that in such cases other people take advantage of you.
So how does adjusting and adapting always with society ends up bad for you? Let's discuss.
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When You Adjust, It signals People How easy You're to Manipulate
Society has this tendency that if they find someone soft they would rub over that person. And they make sure to take advantage of that person. So being soft and also not sure of how to work with other people you can get into such type of the problems which you have to learn to manipulate and if not then you would be having issues.
Adjustment Should Have A Limit
You can adjust with people all the time and for entire life. But that would only keep your life more restricted and not much to learn or enjoy. So you have to find out the adjustment having some sort of limit. And never make sure to adjust with everything that life throws at you. Make sure to change course as often as necessary.
When People Take Advantage. Remind Them You're Not Co-operating
You have to understand that when people take advantage you would have to learn to make changes to your behavior. Think of it like adjusting to only things that matter and saying no a lot. Because your life is not a joke and you have to say no more often than adjusting with people that are out there. You have to draw the line.
More People Learn About You. More Will Take Advantage of You
Trick to not getting used by other people is making sure that you are learning to be proactive and keeping distance with other people. And that seems to be the way you learn not to let other people take advantage of you. I have learned that the hard way. And things seem to have been pretty difficult otherwise in many ways when we don't realize to be politicially distanced with people.
So there is a limit to adjust with people and there is a limit to say yes and then making a habit to say no. And if you learn to do that then you learn how to adjust with new people and how to draw the line in our everyday life.
Conclusion
When you make an attempt to adjust with other people, you end up being used. You have to learn to say no and understand where your limits are too. So that you retain the good people and let go of the bad people.
How do you handle being used? or how do you avoid other people taking advantage of?
