Is there nothing called personal belongings anymore?

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I don't know but I am not finding this funny and I don't know if anyone can relate to this.

I do I tell someone, these are my personal belongings, please don't make use of them without my permission or better still, if you want to use it, just let me know first, give me a heads up or something like that then I can permit you to use it.

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I don't know why I get paranoid over issues like this but I feel some things aren't just to be shared with others regardless of who they are maybe because of the communicable disease that can be transferred sharing those things or perhaps because of my kinda person.

Maybe I am overthinking but then I ask myself, who shares a toothbrush, who shares a bathing sponge, and many more things.



I can remember vividly when I was quite young, my teacher taught me about personal belongings and I was told those things are not meant to be shared because they are yours to use and keep only but how on earth do I have brothers who do not understand simple English like '
"don't use my sponge, don't use my towel, don't use my toothbrush" why can someone please answer that for me?

The annoying part is that I use my belongings and keep them clean in a safe place where I can get them handy to use later or perhaps hang my towel out in the air to help dry it but these bully of brothers use them and at the end of the day, I can't even find where the drop it neither do they sundry my towel. They just dump it anyway and when I want to use them, I can't because I did not find them clean. They make me frustrated with my belongings, isn't that the height of wickedness?😩



I am beginning to ask God why he didn't give me a younger or perhaps a senior sister, why he ended up handing down these two humans I call my brothers. They make me go crazy and still will sit to watch me frustrated because of their doings.

The worst part is that they know very well that I can not even use their personal belongings because I have disciplined myself not to share most of those things and mehn, their belongings are not to write home about 🤦‍♀️, I don't know if this is how all guys are, but I wouldn't want to spare a glance at my brothers belonging even when I am in dire need after they have used mine and refused to clean it up or sundry it for me to use. I would rather go that day without using anything than use theirs 🤭, those guys are bombshells.



I am sure, someone would be saying, they are family, just allow them to use those, it's no big deal, we'll, sorry to burst that fancy, it's not just a big deal to me but a bigger deal because they can't and don't even know how to keep it clean after using and those were called "personal belongings" for a reason.

I hate sharing most of my things, but let's just say you know how to keep them clean and dry, then, I wouldn't mind sharing with you.

I don't know what else to do anymore, these guys have got the money to buy their own stuffs, but they intentionally refuse to get them, and even if they get them, they don't know how to keep it clean leaving them no option than to use mine and even when they decide to use mine, they still can't keep it clean.

You pick my big polo and decide to wear it, only for you to drop it back after using it with your sweat all over it and not bothering to keep it away from my clean cloth, who in the world does that? I guess my brothers.

I never begged you to use my belongings but if you do, can you do me a favour by returning them to the place you picked them up clean and dry. What is hard for one to understand here?



For a few days now, I have been wondering, maybe I should get a bag, put all my belonging, and lock them up with a padlock at least that will give me peace of mind that even if I am away, my things are safe and clean away from those rascals who find joy in messing up my things with no care of keeping them clean and safe for my use.

Please can someone help me answer this troubling questions that have been disturbing me for these past days because I beginning to have migraine because of these rascals I call brothers.



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Lol 😂😂😂😂😂😂

I love the way you explained and narrated your plight.
@evegrace. I know this isn't funny, but all the same, you got to calm down...
Haven't you been talking to your brothers about this? If they won't listen, then report to your parents about it.

Stay cool!


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Smile, this is very serious and you really through alot from this your two brother.

Normally when we are talking about personal belongings it's not things that you can share with someone is only made for you.

Not even that they are guys and you are a female it is two different a female cannot use personal belongings of a male and a male cannot use personal belongings of a female is not ideal.

That is guys life for you, you don't use to make things clean and all they believe is that is only lady that do clean whatever they have and clean the house.

guys are very dirty sorry to say it's only we ladies that do take care of them by making them look clean or do some guys are there and they are very nice and very clean.

To the extent that if a lady rough the house they will fight such ladies some guys are even good in tidying the House than some ladies.

that is why you see them that we never did make use of your towel all your shirts they won't wash it well, some will be even telling you that is their wife that will do the cleaning of their clothes and tied up the house.

What I can said that the best thing you can do is that you will make sure that you lock your room and keep the key somewhere or you will be helping them to wash their own clothes or whatever you know they use to disturb you.

That is how the elderly people do say that you should leave them but they don't know the side effects of it even though husband and wife don't use the same towel, tooth brush or the same sponge because they are two opposite sex.

so best is that you make a sacrifice by helping them to wash their clothes since they are your younger ones, maybe they are still young in age that they don't know how to wash clothes very well, you can't be helping them to wash their clothes or some things that can be a disturb to you.

when you lock your room anytime you want to go out and whatever you know it is used to for you that you drop out before you go to work then you take them in so that they will be secured.


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