The Pains
Some pains never go, even if we buy the whole painkillers to relieve us of them, they would always prick us after some time to remind us that they are still around with some pain from our loved ones.
There is a difference between the pain that comes from wounds we had as a result of an accident or cut, and the pain that comes as a result of being punctured by our loved ones, friends, or family members.
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This pain can never be cured or healed using painkillers, antiseptics or any other medicine people buy to ease their pain. No matter how we try to bury the hatchet, it is always very difficult because they are from our close ones.
Some pains never go away even though the cut looks closed and healed, they constantly remind us they were once there, and just maybe we've forgotten that they existed in that part of our body.
Although, they may be forgotten, but these pains will always be a reminder of what happened and how we got the pains. So many most especially the youth we see today is the product of the pains they've been through and are still going through. Most of them have decided to shield themselves from the world in a way of blocking them from more pain even though they still come while some wear these pains as clothes. We see them on their faces, in their attitude, in their personality and character that we see through the pains and either run away or want to help them heal.
These pains can never be healed by anyone but them. They have to consciously take steps in healing to avoid these pains coming over and over again.
Even though we most times think that we shouldn't expect much from people to not get ourselves hurt at the end of the day, It still can't take the fact that the pains of our loved ones and the people around us is very traumatizing and for those pains to heal completely, it takes a lot of our conscious time and energy to heal and to forget whatever brought the pains.
I can say out of experience that it doesn't feel good to have pains from wounds inflicted on us by someone very close to us. One feels terrible to know that the pains he or she has been caused by their parents, siblings, best of friends, and a loved one.
This kinda pain lasts for years if not consciously worked on and it takes so much energy to work on our forgiving heart to forgive them for inflicting such pain on us.
It would be of help if we humans are conscious of what we do or say to people to avoid inflicting unnecessary pains that will forever be with them till their graves. Pains that will constantly prick us to remind us of the event of how it happened.
They are not easy to forget and the most dreadful.
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Nice post, I often hear people say"give it time, you'll be fine" not all wonds though. There are some pains that will forever leave a hole in your heart
You are right, most especially when they are from the people whom we love.