Ladies of Hive Community Contest #128 || Details commemorating love in marriage [ESP/ENG]

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Un saludo a todos los que me visitan y hacen vida en la plataforma de HiveBlog 💙 a la hermosa comunidad de @ladiesofhive y también a @ifarmgirl que en esta oportunidad nos propone hablar sobre el matrimonio, que planes solemos hacer en los aniversarios y si aun no lo hemos celebrado, cual seria el evento soñado. En mi caso, desde pequeña, me inculcaron en mi educación y costumbres que el matrimonio era un paso importante y fundamental al momento de formar una relación formal y una futura familia estable. De hecho ahora que analizamos como han cambiado esta tradiciones con el paso de los años, antes las personas solían casarse a muy temprana edad, mi madre por ejemplo lo hizo al cumplir la mayoría de edad, aunque desde los 15 años ya tenia su pareja y vivían juntos, el mismo que fue mi padre hasta hace 3 años. La verdad que ella fue un bonito ejemplo para mi, estabilidad, confianza, al mantenerse juntos a pesar de todo y con el mismo amor desde jóvenes hasta llegar a mayores, una historia de amor que tristemente termino con el fallecimiento de mi padre y que ella aun lo recuerda con mucha nostalgia y con la esperanza de volverse a encontrar en otro plano u otra vida.

Greetings to all who visit me and make life on the HiveBlog platform 💙 to the beautiful community of @ladiesofhive and also to @ifarmgirl who this time proposes to talk about marriage, what plans we usually do on anniversaries and if we have not yet celebrated, what would be the dream event. In my case, since I was a child, I was instilled in my education and customs that marriage was an important and fundamental step when forming a formal relationship and a future stable family. In fact now that we analyze how these traditions have changed over the years, before people used to get married at a very young age, my mother for example did it when she came of age, although since she was 15 years old she already had a partner and they lived together, the same as my father until 3 years ago. The truth is that she was a beautiful example for me, stability, trust, staying together despite everything and with the same love from young to old, a love story that sadly ended with the death of my father and she still remembers it with great nostalgia and with the hope of meeting again in another plane or another life.

A las mujeres casadas, ¿les gusta celebrar sus aniversarios de boda?

To married ladies, do you celebrate your wedding anniversaries?

Mirando por un momento hacia el pasado, recuerdo haberme casado a los 23 años, y al años siguiente haber tenido a mi primer hijo, y luego a los tres años mas tarde tuve a mi segunda hija. Aunque en mi costumbre estaba casarme antes de formar una familia y vivir formalmente con mi pareja, solo celebre el matrimonio por el civil, ya que mi pareja no había comulgado y este era un requisito, y aunque para mi como creyente, era importante casarme con la bendición de Dios, pesaba mas el amor que nos teníamos y el deseo de estar juntos por el resto de nuestras vidas.

Si hablamos de fechas de aniversarios, creo que a la mayoría de las mujeres se nos da mejor que a los hombres recordarla, por lo menos en mi caso así es, y aunque mi esposo no es muy detallista, es esfuerzo que hace al hacerme reír y alegrar cada día me gusta mucho mas, ya luego cuando se lo recuerdo, es que se pone mas creativo y manos a la obra, y si esta en nuestro presupuesto, nos permitimos salir a un bonito lugar para comer. De recién casados en la fecha de nuestro primer aniversario que es el 28 de mayo, recuerdo me regalo un ramo de flores y un lindo anillo que simbolizaba las alianzas de una boda religiosa ya que él sabia que esto me hacia ilusión, desafortunadamente años mas tarde lo perdí en un robo, pero aun lo recuerdo con mucha alegría y amor. El próximo mes estaremos cumpliendo 30 años de casados también conocidas como las bodas de perla, una linda fecha que nos recuerda la experiencia y todo lo que hemos logrado construir juntos, los hijos que educamos, los desafíos y las próximas aventuras que vendrán para ponernos a prueba de que nuestro amor es solido y durara hasta que dios nos lo permita.

Looking back for a moment, I remember getting married at the age of 23, and the following year I had my first child, and then three years later I had my second daughter. Although it was my custom to get married before forming a family and formally living with my partner, I only celebrated the marriage by civil ceremony, since my partner had not received communion and this was a requirement, and although for me as a believer, it was important to get married with God's blessing, the love we had for each other and the desire to be together for the rest of our lives weighed more.

If we talk about anniversaries, I think that most of us women are better at remembering them than men, at least in my case, and although my husband is not very detail oriented, the effort he makes to make me laugh and make me happy every day I like it much more, and then when I remind him, he gets more creative and gets down to work, and if it is in our budget, we allow ourselves to go out to a nice place to eat. When we were newlyweds on the date of our first anniversary which is May 28, I remember he gave me a bouquet of flowers and a beautiful ring that symbolized the wedding rings of a religious wedding because he knew that this made me look forward, unfortunately years later I lost it in a robbery, but I still remember it with great joy and love. Next month we will be celebrating 30 years of marriage also known as the pearl wedding, a beautiful date that reminds us of the experience and everything we have managed to build together, the children we raised, the challenges and the next adventures that will come to test us that our love is solid and will last as long as God allows us.

Nos vemos en otra oportunidad para seguir conversando e invito a todos los que deseen participar. Saludos y bendicones¡

See you another time to continue our conversation and I invite all those who wish to participate. Greetings and blessings!

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Para la traducción usé el traductor: DeepL


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For the translation, I used the translator: DeepL




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It's nice that although your husband forgets, he does things on his own way when you remind him about it.

Next month we will be celebrating 30 years of marriage also known as the pearl wedding, a beautiful date that reminds us of the experience and everything we have managed to build together, the children we raised, the challenges and the next adventures that will come to test us that our love is solid and will last as long as God allows us.

Happy 30th in advance❤️ It must be wonderful to look back through the years and reminisce all the memories you have had and be thankful for the challenges that you've been through. It's a beautiful celebration of how you shared your life together❤️

!LADY

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Love is sweet no doubt about that, good to see how love is celebrated, for a moment after reading this I felt like, marriage here I am, I'm ready.

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