Balancing Your Career and Family

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Hello friends
I'm here to share with you another wonderful topic.
This has been one of the problem a lady can be having in her family.

It's is 100% possible to have a good career and still have time for your family it all begins with YOU.

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So I have heard of many marriages where the woman is not allowed to work but become a complete housewife maybe because her husband doesn't want her to work and is able to pay all the bill at home.

I am not against you becoming a home wife but I urge you get anything done.
No matter how affluent your hubby is there's this satisfaction of leaving your home and doing what you love.
Marriage should in no way make you lose out on your dreams rather it should assist you to grow them.

He may also start your preferred business for you if she doesn't want you to work.
In as much as you want to have a meaningful profession or work it is crucial to also construct time for your family. This has generated lots of Issues in a marriage where the partners are so busy chasing their jobs that they have little or no time for themselves or their children.

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Communicate
Before you get married, you and your finance should communicate.
Do you want to work?
Do you want a business? Discuss all of it before entering a marriage. That is why Courtship is necessary. It is a moment to know more about the individual. In this method, there will be fewer issues in marriage.

If you're already married you still communicate. Talk to your partner about what you desire.

Create time
For any successful marriage or relationship, there should be understanding. It's not easy chasing a job and taking care of your family as a woman but there's where the understanding comes in.
Know when you have time for your family and when to focus. That's why having a plan is crucial.

It's not healthy to additionally carry job tension home. It gets you irritated at simple things even at home. If your job is worrying you, take some rest.
Avoid taking work Issues into your home.

Have a lovely weekend❤️



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So true. Thanks for this wonderful writeup communication is very crucial

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Thank you for your thoughtful post. And I agree with communicating what we want with our spouse and striking a balance between what we want to do and taking good care of our family duties.

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Communication is very important. They should think beyond the the butterflies and do the needful. That way, no issue arises in the future.

Marriage should be enjoyed. Beneficial to both parties.

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Exactly
You made a good point
People leave what they are supposed to be doing in courtship and just have fun

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If I ever get marriage again, this would be the rules.

Never brawl in public. Fight within the confines of a locked room.

Never have children under the pressure of overly inquisitive and judgmental family members.

Never force sex; it should always be enjoyable for both parties.

Respect the people your partner cares about, unless they are disrespectful to you.

Take a day off each month to spend exclusively with your partner; watch a movie together, romance, go for a long walk, go shopping, just you two like love birds.

Accept your partner as you would accept your parents. This will calm the ego and bring about happiness.

Never let a day go by without having a brief conversation. Share anything, discuss anything, but communicate.

When you're together, your partner should feel like a VIP.

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Wow well said
Thank you for your contribution
You are ready right about everything you said
Thank you for your contribution ❤️

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Yeah, it is very sure to have a balance if you decide to have one between your career and your family time.

A lot of families are suffering from not having a balance to this, too bad!

The tips you gave are very valid, thanks for sharing with the ladies ❤️

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You're welcome dear friend
Thank you for seeing my post valid

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Excellent post.
It is very true, before getting married you have to talk very well about each of the aspects of daily life and how you will lead the family.
Many times as women we end up postponing our goals and dreams to devote ourselves completely to the care of the family, in other cases we end up neglecting the family for jobs that are too demanding.
It is a difficult situation where you should always choose the right balance 🙏🏽🌸✨.

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You're right dear friend
That's why is important to communicate in Courtship and even in marriage that's the way things can get better

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