[LOH#123] Why It Is Hard For People To Connection Easily
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The first topic is for me. Sometimes I want to be alone, and sometimes I just want to be around people and experience genuine affection. I even question myself if I am human 😂 cus I have no desire to associate with people other than I desire that experience.
Certainly nobody is an island but nobody wants to be around people who will harm, disrespect or look down on them so they prefer remaining alone and appreciating their serenity.
Another reason why people find it hard to communicate and prefer staying alone is how they developed. A child who developed in a lonely environment and isn't permitted to socialize grows and an introvert, some change as they grow why some people like that eternally. They find it hard to make real connections (you can't blame them though) they grew up like that. Some reclusive characters can be transmitted from their parents.
Another reason some persons may decide not to create genuine relationships with people is that they have been hurt or deceived in time. Yeah! They might have pardoned the individual but the pain and the fright of the wound still stung. It pains more actually when it's someone you trusted so much. In the scenario, they find it hard to believe or even become so close to people to prevent them from further pain. I have been there before so I know how it actually is.
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It's like you said what was in my mind, these are very valid reasons and the last one hits home 🥹🫠
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I am sorry you've been hurt; I suspect we all have in the end. I hear ya when you say you want nothing to do with people some times. I have often, especially lately, fantasized about becoming a recluse; living with very little interaction with people, but I know that we were made to need fellowship with one another, so I just entertain the thought.
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Nevertheless, i still interact with very few people and i don't trust them.
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Almost everyone of us if not all also think that we want to be alone sometimes and then there are the times we want to be around people.
I think it's normal but it becomes abnormal when we are so into being on our own and end up feeling lonely because we have cut off even the little connections we had.
There are many reasons for that to happen, we just have to fight against it to keep sane.
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Being alone by choice is a very happy feeling and the heart loves this feeling. We all need that time to time, and these are good moments of reflection.
You're right buddy