Things I Will Do As A Parent

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So, presently I am not married but I want to get married eventually with my kids. One Joy of marriage is to know that you have children who are there to help you. There's this Joy children offer since they are gifts from God.
Being a parent is not an easy task.. Whatever you educate a child today he or she develops with it and might be an extra asset to the community or problem.
Some persons we see nowadays involved in evil deeds were not properly trained at home while others were but peer pressure or their environment changed them.

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Yeah! Our parents may have made mistakes raising us since they had the mindset of the 1900's Many of them didn't even get the privilege to see their parents or live with them. Most of them were strict since their parents were soldiers and wouldn't accept bullshit.
We future parents are in the modern world and things have changed significantly. It doesn't imply we shouldn't discipline our children, you actually need too so they don't go wrong.

I would say I got one of the greatest parents. Well when I was small my parents would scold and flog me. I didn't like them for that but as I got older it molded my life to be a disciplined person with a decent heart. My mother would always make sure we donate to the needy around us and developed a great bond between myself and my siblings.
But there's were still other things they didn't perform properly and I will correct with my kids

Establishing a close connection with my kids. When I say this I don't mean that my parents didn't pay attention to me but what I meant is that they were not truly my best friend. My mom was working at the ministry of labor. Sometimes she gets so busy that I can't have time with her. My dad also was strict and it made me remain far from him. Even while growing as a teenager it was hard to even inform them about my private life, I would prefer to keep it to myself that made me an introvert.
Being a mom I will undoubtedly have a close bond with my children (girls and boys). I will be their bestfriend if they meet me first, even before frends. I'm absolutely going to tell them to bring their friends home constantly that I want to see them and it doesn't matter the gender.

Additionally as a parent, I would learn to support my children and never condemn them. I wouldn't ever compare them with other children. This problem might induce poor self-esteem in a youngster. No matter how poorly they perform I will encourage them that they can do better. Most times our parents don't realize we need such encouragement.

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Being best friends with kids is the best thing. With this, they share everything with us.I like your idea.

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So true. Parents should be the the first best friend a child should have, however in most cases it is not so, as seen often in most African parents

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wow... I think we are on the same page here. Connection between parents and the children is very vital and should be taken into consideration because that's the route we will get to know about the children's private life and other stuffs. When we relate and make them friends, it's obvious that what they can tell their friends they can also tell us. Your points are valid🙏🙌✅

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