Why Choose To Be Angry When Love Can Prevail

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As human beings, we are meant to possess some quality of anger or annoyance towards people or certain situations we can no longer tolerate depending on our level of tolerance. There are actually some people who get angry easily immediately you offend them and they tend to vent their anger on you at that same spot while some people won't bother showing you they are angry with you whenever you offend them.

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These set of people may keep tolerating your attitude until it get to a stage whereby they may not be able to tolerate your attitude anymore and they will be left with no choice than to vent the whole annoyance they've been holding for such a long period of time on you. I guess this explains why we can never be equal when it comes to our level of tolerance and attitude.

My Kind of Personality


I'm a kind of person who doesn't get angry very fast due to my high level of tolerance. I really find it difficult pouring out my annoyance on people due to my introverted nature. I don't like trouble (wahala) and I try as much as possible to avoid problem because I'm an easy going person with a soft boy lifestyle.

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The problem I'm always having is that the people I love the most are mostly the ones that do get me upset but I can never hold grudges against them neither can I ever vent my anger towards them because they are very precious to me.

Why Do We Always Get Offended By The People We Love The Most ?


I still always ask myself this particular question almost everyday and I'm yet to get a valuable answer to my question. I am always astonished whenever I notice my loved ones stepping on my nerves just to get me angry while people who aren't too close to me never do such a thing.

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I could remember the day one of my best friend named TJ frustrated me in the engineering workshop during lecture period. I always love to be focused and attentive whenever lecture is ongoing in class. My best friend knew that I hated all sort of distractions during lecture but I actually didn't know what got over him that day. He kept disturbing me and playing with me even after i warned him about such act but unfortunately we ended up getting caught by the lecturer whom later disgraced us in the presence of all other students.

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I actually felt so bad about the incident and at the same time I was also very annoyed but I just had to overlook the whole drama since he is my best friend and misunderstanding will definitely occur in every relationships it's just a matter of how you settle and solve the problem. We both reconciled later that evening and he promised such won't repeat itself again. We dined, played and enjoyed ourselves later that day forgetting the whole incident as bye-gone and today we are cool.

Summary and Conclusion

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In summary and conclusion, I really find it very difficult staying angry with my loved ones for a very long period. I just can't withstand not getting in touch with them for a longer period of time all because of mere misunderstanding which can be resolved and settled amicably. I just really want to be cool with everyone around me and I see no reason prolonging my duration of anger for a longer period of time when such act can later affect my state of well-being just like a statement made by Ralph Emerson who once stated that "for every minute you remain angry, you give up 60 seconds peace of mind". Why would I want to keep loosing my piece of mind when the people I think I'm angry at are busy enjoying their lives happily?.. Giving up on anger and reconciling very fast with your loved ones is a good sign of good living and a healthy lifestyle.

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I am Adebola by name and I'm also a graduate of Agricultural Engineering (BSC). I am someone who cherish self development and being productive is in my DNA, this is why I am always open to learning from anyone and I love making research. I have been in the crypto space for the past five years and my level of enthusiasm for cryptocurrency and blockchain technology keeps increasing day by day. My hobbies are reading, writing, eating, engaging in agricultural operations, travelling, designing and blogging. My skills include Content writing, Graphic Design, UI/UX (Product) Deisgn, Copywriting, Internet Marketing, Blogging, Research and Coding (Novice). Feel free to connect with me via;
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It was quite a time here, honestly
But it's really crazy how some people react so harshly over little incident. I for one I'm a bit like you, but in my case i laugh over allot of things
But of late i learnt to put people in their place and point out their wrong dids, In so doing my conscience is clear of grudges and hate towards them

I'll check out the above mentioned name RALPH EMERSON to get more tips on dealing with the mind. Thanks for your view on this topic, hope to see more 😇😇

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Greetings @khingstan 💕😊

It was quite a time here, honestly
But it's really crazy how some people react so harshly over little incident. I for one I'm a bit like you, but in my case i laugh over allot of things

Lol... I am actually astonished about some people behaviour when it comes to anger. Some people don't just have that space for tolerance.. Any small thing like this dem go change am for you 😂😂

But of late i learnt to put people in their place and point out their wrong dids, In so doing my conscience is clear of grudges and hate towards them

That's actually the spirit bro. You made me remember the ubiquitous statement of Wizkid "More love, Less Ego"

I'll check out the above mentioned name RALPH EMERSON to get more tips on dealing with the mind. Thanks for your view on this topic, hope to see more 😇😇

You can definitely check out for the name. Thanks for your lovely comment with love from @hardaeborla and I hope you have a great day ahead 💕😊💕

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There's no point in being angry and deny ourselves of peace of mind when those you think you're upset with are busy enjoying their lifes.

And then just as you've said, most of the people we love are those who tends to annoy us the most but we don't have a choice than to overlook their offenses.

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Greetings @sholex94 ❤️😊

There's no point in being angry and deny ourselves of peace of mind when those you think you're upset with are busy enjoying their lifes

Exactly buddy!! I see no reason we have to keep depriving ourselves the happiness we deserve just because of a little misunderstanding or anger.

And then just as you've said, most of the people we love are those who tends to annoy us the most but we don't have a choice than to overlook their offenses

Overlooking their offenses will definitely give us a sound piece of mind.

Thanks for your lovely comment with love from @hardaeborla and I hope you have a great day ahead ❤️😊❤️💕😊

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You're most welcome boss man... Thanks 👍

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All because we love a person does not stop them from hurting us, we are all humans and are not perfect. One way or another we tend to hurt a person whether knowingly or unknowingly, we all should just learn to forgive.

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Greetings @offia66 💕❤️

All because we love a person does not stop them from hurting us, we are all humans and are not perfect. One way or another we tend to hurt a person whether knowingly or unknowingly, we all should just learn to forgive.

I strongly agree with your point here buddy. As humans we are always meant to make mistakes and it's really best we ensure our heart is wide enough to forgive people for their short comings.

Thanks for your lovely comment with love from @hardaeborla and I hope you have a great day ahead 💕😊❤️😊

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