Ladies of Hive Contes #100 Written by @hivedeb

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In most cases women are the victims of these emotional scandals, well maybe because we have very tender hearts and we are easily lured by what we hear and this can be very dangerous. Women are highly emotional and need to be handled with so much care. Some persons have realized this and they use every way possible to make sure they satisfy their selfish desires.

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A few years ago I was a victim of a scam though not a relationship scam but the said person came with a business proposal with the name I know and that was how I was lured into the trap. You know because he sounded so familiar.

Well, something can be done to avoid all these. Some of the things that we can do as ladies are,

  • Creating Awareness: It is important to educate the female forks about this skim that so many are using on their victims which the ladies are mostly the target. When we get to know the different ways that are being used it will help us get prepared for them.

  • Guide your channels with all jealousy. Some of them get to skim through our handles for their selfish interest. If I don't know you or know someone that knows you I don't trust you so much especially if we have not met personally.

  • We should learn how to guide our heart with all meekness this is because our heart is so tender and we don't need to give them to anyhow person.

  • As ladies we should be careful not to jump to conclusions so easily.

  • Ask sensitive questions: I will not say love at first site does not exist but it should not becloud your sense of judgement.

  • Do not neglect the warning signals which some person call the red flags. Some things should not be overlooked, the things you overlook today may lock you up tomorrow

This is my entry for the hive ladies contest #100. I do appreciate @trangbaby for this week's contest. My invitation goes to @nkemakonam89 and @desiredlady to come and participate in this contest.

Thanks for visiting my blog



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When a feeling arises that is not love at first sight, things usually happen to please the other person. Therein lies the weakness and women will be by its essence that tends to fall. Then things happen and getting out is not easy.

Greetings

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Getting out is not always easy but we can pull through.

Thanks for stopping by

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It is really a shame that in today's world, there are so many scams! When it comes to love, I believe we ladies are more susceptible simply because we want true love. There is always someone out there who might want to profit from this unfortunately. Thank you for sharing and have a lovely day!

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Yeah we really need true love but get the worst a times.

Thanks for coming

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It hurts to see the world the way it is today. it is quite hard to find love these days.

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Learning not to jump into conclusion,is what every human should learn. Thanks for sharing.

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I hate being emotionally manipulated, it was taken so badly that I even ignored my own father's advice. I still feel the pain of that in retrospect.
Thanks for sharing @hivedeb

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Woow, am happy you learnt from that experience and it serves as a lesson that you will share now or in near future

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Being scammed is never a pleasant experience, and for women, it can be especially traumatic. That's because scammers often target women by taking advantage of our vulnerabilities. They do this by showering them with sweet words and promises, which can be hard for women to resist. Unfortunately, these promises are usually empty, and the women who believe them end up getting hurt - both emotionally and financially. If you're a woman who's looking for love online, be very careful.

I totally agree that it's very important to educate women about this.

Thanks for the entry, much appreciated it !LADY

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Empty promises indeed. Thanks for this well thoughtful topic

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A lot of scammers take advantage of women's soft hearts to penetrate deep and harm those hearts. Women are always looking for true love but in everything, we need to be extra careful if it must be from online.
Thanks for the invite 💖👍🥳

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Oh yes we need to be very careful. Our heart is very important.

Thanks for showing

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Indeed Reg flags when noticed in Relationships should be looked into very well to avoid being prey

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