My Independence Journey
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It's such a privilege to be with you today. I sincerely appreciate all the hands behind this lovely community you are doing so much in making sure that everything is in place. Also to all the members of this community my shout-out to you all.
Welcome to my blog as I will be participating in today's contest. Everyone has a beginning and there is always a story to link every event be it good or bad. Connecting the story is not a bad one at all.
The first time I left my parent's home that lead to me being alone was not committed to a bad event though it got strangely bitter along the line. The event started with the information from my brother for me to apply for a school in the Northern Region in my country then he was servicing. I applied and it was time for the entrance exam, I prepared to travel for this exam. A journey that should have lasted for 18 hours took about 60 hours it wasn't funny at all. Our car got spoilt I the way and we had to wait for it to be fixed before continuing with the journey.
Finally, we arrived then I went for the exam. It happened that I didn't get the admission then I determined to stay back in my seat for another jamb to reapply. Before then my brother went back because he was done with the service and I was left alone.
I started selling some things to help myself. In the process, I learned how to prepare zobo juice, and most people like my juice and always anticipate the day I will produce it.
Being independent is a good thing because it offers the opportunity to taste all the things you have been hearing from your parents. Also staying on my own taught me discipline and self-control because as a young girl with so much innocence if I was not having that ability I would have done some terrible things in wickedness. Being independent has helped me to learn patience and dependence on God. I stayed for an extra year in a strange land before the admission finally came, those times I had to be patient and trust in God to perfect his work in me.
If a man does not have anything to help his focus to be sure anything can sweep him off balance. staying alone is good if you can handle all the pressure that comes with it.
Thank you for reading. Stay positive
Being independent is a good thing and it teaches us many lessons. But the comfort feeling we get from our parents can't be achieved by anything.
That is it friend
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Thank you so much for the support
Yeah well said... Staying away from home would made you independent, you'll surely find a means of survival for yourself and that would help one become a better man or woman.
That is it and one will be more responsible if he wishes to
Exactly 👍
You look like a very powerful woman!
Nice to "meet" you ❤️
Hahaha, thanks friend.
Nice to meet you too
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What a compliment.
She so is though! Did you read that and see her pics? Full power!! 💥
This is the type of role model our young women should be seeing. Not the ones on mainstream pop culture rubbish media!
I sure did see her pics. She looks beautiful too.
Independent ladies of our time like her are ones that should be looked up to. The ones on mainstream media are like characters in some lazy author’s book.
Yes! Nice to find men who like strong, powerful woman too! 💥
I just visited your profile and saw your video.
You're also very handsome! 👀
Don't stop the music 💥
Hi!! @nickydee
Let me first apologise for just responding to your comment. Work hit the fan, so I have not been able to engage as much as I should.
I see you checked me out. I always appreciate your comments and engagement.
Now you are making a man like myself to blush.😊
Thank you so much!
Aw.
Thanks darlin'
I'm old and cranky. The highlights hide it ;)
No need to ever apologize to me for being you please
I'm an artist as well. A mama to a busy eleven year old. And I work as well.
So I also go missing for days and weeks at times
Be you and be comfortable and at peace please
No pressure ever
All good with me 👍😊
haha...
Is it actually you in your display photo?
You definitely have a lot on your plate, especially with the eleven year old.
Thank you for your kind words. as always.
Happy Sunday.
Yes that's me ☺️
He's full on but the best guy I've ever met. Life would be boring without him.
Happy Sunday to you too 🌼
Wow... you chose to stay back all on your own. I like that spirit. It shows that you know what you were after and you were ready to go for it.
I'm glad it all worked out well for you.
Thank you for sharing this with us.
Yes I did. Thank you so much for your review
Hello there fellow dreemer!! :)
Love that you are submittig your posts ito DreemPort to get more eyes! hehehe One thing... whe you are adding images, we always need you to state where your images come from :) So when you submit personal pictures, y ou can just put on the bottom of the post "Images are mine, uless otherwise stated" (don't forget hehe)
It helps us to be sure that no one is even using your personal images without permission :) Youd be surprised... people will take all kids of things from personal pages! But when you state it on you rpost - it helps us out so much and saves us so much time!!! :) thank you so much! I'll screen this into DreemPort today since this is the first time I'm helping you! hehehe
Oooh yes, it is my image.
Thanks for the observation, I will work on what you said
Thank you for always being so kind while you’re correcting. It really is lovely the way you do it.
you're very welcome 🤗
You are absolutely right about how being alone opens our eyes to seeing the sacrifices our parents make for us being under their care.
You were really brave to have still chosen to sty back and retry that JAMB exams.
Thank God that admission came in, else it may have began making your stay a little frustrating.
You are really beautiful too, I must add.
I’m glad DreemPort brought me here.
Haha :)
You're on my curation list for Dreemport today as well. So I get to see the amazing you twice!
Keep shining the light! 💃
Wooow, so nice. Am glad to meet you again
😁 Well done, sister. You got traction!
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You're brave, and an example of what humans can do with work, perseverance and faith. I am happy to meet you.
DreemPort deposited me here. 🤗
Thank you so much my dear friend, nice to meet you too
Agreed with your viewpoint, staying alone makes you more confident and this independence saves you from many difficulties. Everyone learns with experience but before this giving, a tough time for mending mistakese prevents you from more damages. Well done with your entry. Thanks for dropping it in Dreemport.
Ooh thanks love for your nice comments
Hi @hivedeb, it sounds like you have an enterprising spirit! It's great that you were able to turn your skills into something you could sell. I haven't heard of zobo juice before. What's in it?
Yes i do have,and its very high. Anything in the positive direction I can do to get going. But now am focused on a few and humanitarian services. Zobo is hibiscus samdaripha leave, you can get a measure you want boil it for about 20minutes then add some natural sweeter
I will try to do a step by step write up on how it is produced. I think that can serve
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