The Journey To Financial Security Takes Discipline (LoH134)

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(Edited)


Markus Winkler


Whilst some people are good and disciplined on their money dealings and built a secure and stable finances early on, others (like me) learned it later in life and in a hard way. It did make me wish they teach such in school rather than theories and solving numbers. But then again, maybe it's just how it is.

My parents are great at managing their finances and I've observed how they made their way through from since I was young and able to send us to private schools and support our needs. They were both undergraduates yet they knew better. In fact, my father didn't really believe in banks and whilst mother has a different opinion, she showed support nonetheless. For some reason, I didn't learn from them and never really knew how to budget or at least save. Although I had good-paying jobs from since I was 20 through my mid-30s, there isn't anything to show about it. Perhaps my parents wanted me to learn on my own so they never interfered back then.

So you can imagine I'm one of those many people who lived like everything is set and didn't really plan on creating or building a nest for the future. Spend, spend and spend some more until the next payday and then the cycle repeats. It was until a few years ago when while listening to an audiobook, both the husband came into a realization that we absolutely needed an overhaul and make changes with respect to our money dealings.

Although we are able to sustain our needs without any difficulty, we are by no means financially secure. But we are taking steps and hopefully be there one day. Thanks to the wisdom of Arkad (The Richest Man in Babylon) for guiding us through. Now, I can confidently say that we are learning and doing better than how we did before.

Paying ourselves first

First thing we learned to apply (and still do) is that we have to pay ourselves first. That is for every money that comes in no matter how small, we take no less than 10% and put them aside as our savings. This is by far one of the best nuggets we took from the book. I shared not so long ago of the proper savings formula, (re: Income minus Savings = Expenses)

It actually took us a while to adjust before we are able to do it consistently because we were used to doing the opposite (re: spending first and when there's left, that's what goes to savings). The good thing about this method is that we became more mindful of how we spend and it is surprising that while we are able to buy our necessities, enjoy some entertainment and a bit of luxury once in a while, we still have something left which we put aside which gets added to our emergency fund.

The savings we accumulate through this method are mostly used to invest in real properties and a few percentage of it to buying stocks.

It follows that while paying ourselves first (saving), we are controlling and managing our expenses well. We are also able to add to our investments (putting money to work). The real properties we invest in (mostly agricultural lands) are then utilized to earn continuously. This method is working quite well so far. It's how my parents built their nest and we see it's been effective for them. With mom's health concerns and continuing medication, they are able to finance their needs without difficulty and are not relying on us to provide for them. They have insurances, they have enough liquid cash, they have properties bringing money in and they are debt-free. It is safe to say that their nest is secure. We hope to one day be in such a stable financial stage through the discipline we are doing these days.


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Not having any bad debts

The next drastic measure we did was to let go of our Mastercard. This was one of the culprits that contributed to our financial blunders because of its high credit limit. I was holding onto it because of the perks and benefits of owning one but letting it go was one of the best decisions we made.

Although we still have one credit card to date, we ONLY use it for necessary things and we pay the charges in full before they become due.

Building through Hive (Passive)

This is a long-term goal and one of the reasons why I am so keen on growing my Hive Power whilst I'm able and time allows me to be active here as much as I can. Those who have built their Hive Power to a decent amount are now earning passively through curation rewards.

HBD Savings is another way too, although I've just started this through the Penny-A-Day method which I've learnt via the Saturday Savers Club.

TL:DR;

Having stable financial future takes work and discipline. And these are how we are working to creating and building ours:

  • Paying ourself first
  • Mindful spending
  • Appropriate investing
  • Avoiding bad debts
  • Building through Hive by growing Hive Power and HBD Savings

Of course, none of these are financial advice.

And this is my participation to the first question on this week's LoH prompt, re:

Some individuals are excellent planners when it comes to money matters. Others are not. If you are financially secure, how and when did you become so? If not, how do you plan to become secure in your finances?

Photos sourced as acknowledged above. 20052023/10:35ph



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Reading your post reminds me of the years I got involved in financial literacy workshops.

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Now that you reminded me, we did attend some events like that, but paying yourself first didn't really set it during those times, lol!

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Just like Mom, she really save up and now that shes old, even if wala syang job, she has money to use for everyday use. I am also doing what she's doing, I have a saving but I know thats still not enough. I need to do more to save more. Lets go sayo, para sa financial freedom uwu

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It's good you are learning from your mom sis and started while you are young. Kami, late haha. Pero yon, at least natuto na rin kahit papano.

!LADY

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Never too late pa, bata pa naman kayo, kaya pa yan. 💪

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spending first and when there's left, that's what goes to savings

I feel guilty here because I do this more often..it's really hard in my part to budget the remaining of my salary after sending the big percentage of it to my family..
What's left will be budgeted for my allowance and the remaining will go to my savings...but I'm finding ways to have extra income, like blogging which is saved for emergency and my future..

!PIZZA

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Most of us are, sis. But it isn't too late to start hehe. And I understand why you are finding it hard to budget your funds. The good thing is that you are building a nest egg through your side hustles.

!LADY

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Hello @ifarmgirl. I always say that it's now how you start out, but how you end up. I was pleased to hear that you did obtain some assistance in learning how to become financially stable.

Looks like you have a solid formula. My strategy also. SAVE first, then budget the rest. My Savings is an automatic 10%. You and your husband are on the right path. It's essential to be financially secure when you become senior citizens. Careers that offer privater retirements are dwindling. Having to secure you own supplemental insurance can be expensive. This includes the cost of medications.

I applaud you for taking steps to correct what you didn't learn when younger. It takes years sometimes to build financial resources to the point of being secure.

I love how you use your Hive resources to work as passive income. I also do the same.

Thanks for sharing your story. A lovely read.

Have a good weekend.

!ALIVE

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Thank you lots and I agree with you. What matters is starting and keep going for it consistently.

I'm also glad to know that you save first and then budgeting what's left for the bills and others. It's good to have something to pull when old age arrives. And truly, retirement benefits from work can't be relied upon. Some people who have done that ended up being disappointed.

And yes, Hive is giving us another way to save and build for the long term. Thank you once again.

!LADY

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I remember my mother as the main breadwinner in my family, while she was the consummate saver and liked to save her cash she wasn't very good at investing, she just relied on Government bonds and GICs. My Dad made sure all the bills were paid and hardly had any savings, what he did have was in the Venture markets, he did have a decent return.
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Your parents kind of complemented each other's weaknesses. The other one saves and one invested. That is really awesome!

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Many thanks HB team.

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That's great @ifarmgirl! We're excited to see your accomplishments on Hive! We'll continue to support you to achieve your next goals!

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That's so awesome. Thank you lots as always 🤩

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Wow you explain it in very good way, i also start to engage finance in my early age as my Perants wants to learn me about it!!!

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Ahh, reading this reminds me sometimes you don't need a degree to achieve a good life (though still much better to have)

My older sister is like your parents, undergrad. (both elementary only). Yet, they are able to provide their kids in private schools, good universities and earn well.

What they say, wais masyado 😁

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In the beginning, I learned finance-related things by watching how my mother managed to save some money from expenses. I got that habit and I grow up with the habit of saving.
I also get some more ideas after reading your article. So thank you for sharing your knowledge with us.

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This is really good to know. It's nice that you were able to learn early on and I believe you are applying it until now. Congratulations to you :)

!CTP

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I believe you are applying it until now.

Yes, I am applying it almost in every day and it helps me to save some assets for the future. Besides My current knowledge adds more value there. I am hopeful that within some years I will get the best benefit of it.

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This is golden... Really educative...I guess I can learn a thing or two from your story... And again, is Saturday's Savers Club a community on Hive? I would love to learn more about operating the hive account. Like the HBD, and the rest...

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Thank you Vic, I appreciate your words. Yes, Saturday Savers Club are Hivers who set goals and are intentional about working on them.

What specific operation do you want to learn about HBD etc?

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Save first is a very good strategy as it helps one accumulate some money for projects and even start up a business. I do this but not always consistent with it due to many other things that need to be taken care of but reading this now, I'm encouraged to hit it up again. Thanks for sharing this helpful information.

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Today's era is going on and it has become very difficult to make a living here, but still the women who are there are very wise and save money from what they have to spend in difficult and bad situations. And when are they used again. And the man who happens to be has to do his daily expenses, has to run the house and has to see the outside world.

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It is challenging indeed specially with the inflation and such. Both men and women need to know what to do to be able to get through.

!PIZZA

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As long as man does not think about anything, he will never be successful and will never be able to afford his life

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