ANGER IS VERY DISTRUCTIVE DEAL WITH IT

ANGER!

I read a post yesterday on Anger and it's destructive effect.

In the comments section were comments that highlighted the dangers of Anger.

Knowing well that many would not be pleased to have their profile blown open on a fresh post, I have decided to use their initials.

I hope you learn a thing or two about anger.

Thanks

1. T.A.O
   When i was a teenager,i had anger issues...my mum took me for deliverance sessions and made sure to tell the pastors she has d spirit of anger...it took me some reading and self examination to realise d root cause of my anger was pride!.. Where am i going?there's a root cause for anger manifestation...deal with it. We owe it to every young adult/child around us...before they grow into maniacs and psychopaths.

2. O.O.A

I didn't marry a guy that worshipped the ground I walk on because of terrible temper.Very quick to vex and sometimes he will park and fight policemen and shout at me when I try to pacify him and the police.He will have outburst and call me stupid.
I reset my Brain and ran away from him no talking.

I blocked him everywhere he couldn't reach me again.
Today fast forward he has been married 3 times with several.baby mamas

1. C.E

I feel for people who brag about ''when they get angry eh.. Can your hot temper roast plantain for me? A bad thing is bad!

1. N.O

I met one once, loved him so much but the day he slapped me cuz I tried to calm him down over a disagreement he had with his friends, I clearly saw stars and took to my heels thereafter.
I can't forget that day in a haste.

1. A.A

Let me tell y'all a short story
There's this boy, some two years back he was just ten years old then.
He used to get angry easily (which means even little things that he could choose to ignore offends him and it therefore means that virtually everyone could easily step on his toes)
Although he wasn't violent at the time (since he was just ten, he was the youngest in the house at all times so he can't beat anyone up right?)
So instead he would keep malice and refuse to be pacified regardless of how much you apologize.
So one day, his mum offended him. She was wrong but she apologized immediately. I mean for like ten minutes she was pacifying him, but this boy said NO. She then said she wouldn't give him his weekly allowance if he didn't accept her apology but he insisted. She then told me bo se ma n se niyen o (he does that all the time) and left. I couldn't believe my eyes. So I called him, told him I know he has a right to get angry but he needs to know that everyone has a right to be angry too. So if we all exercise our right at the same time, what would the home look like? So I told him to let it go as soon as anyone sincerely apologize to him. But anytime someone offends him, apologize and he refuses to accept the apology, I would exercise my right to get angry and beat him up. He thought I was joking. The next time his older brother offended him and apologized, he was still upset. So I asked him if he was still angry and he said yes so I beat him up. It happened twice before he decided to change. A month after, I heard his mum commending him on his control over his temper.

Moral lesson: Omode buruku lo n di agba buruku.
When parents fail to curb children with anger issues, they become angry adults. Angry people are a danger to themselves and the society at large.

God knows I can't stand a friend who has anger issue let alone a spouse who does. I wanna live very long abeg.

1. O.B.S

Anger is a terrible thing.
And every "angered" fellow has a source.

I battled with mine for years, not until when I cried and opened up to a close friend, who advised me and always teased me when I was angry.
I also made up my mind to let it off...

My big brothers will call me "madam gaagu, landlady, big witch and series of names whenever this anger boils up.
.I don't act violently, but I can talk for the next one hour...and sometimes I cry too..
I reject food for three days because I was angry,
I would leave home for hours because I was angry...

Anger really caused me more harm than good

But thank God for who I am now....

Anger is a terrible thing..... As singles, if you see he/she is not making any improvement, please use the nearest exit door.

Photo credit: Sango..the yoruba diety known for his anger.