Self-love is a skill that can be learned

We hear the phrase "love yourself" all the time on motivational TV shows, social media sites, and from people around us, but have you really considered what it really means?

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What do we think of the phrase "Self-Love"?

Maybe you've asked yourself this question before, but if you haven't, let me ask you now: what does self-love mean to you?
If you think self-love is going to your favorite restaurant when you're hungry, watching a movie at night, or going on a date with your boy/girl friend, I'd say that's correct, but there's something deeper than a delicious meal or a wonderful movie, and it's your emotions.
What does that mean?

Be gentle with your inner child

Even if you are an adult, you have a little child inside your heart, and your inner child needs to be treated with care because he is afraid at times and lonely at others.
Your emotions will never get old, and all you have to do is learn to respect and manage them. Remember, though, that you must express your feelings and spread kindness as if you were a small child.
Consider what would happen if you had a small child and didn't make an effort to make him happy. We don't want our inner child to get violent, yell, or weep, so we avoid it.

Create your imaginary family

After discussing the inner child within each of us, we must now discuss how we can care for this child, which can be accomplished by having great parents, a mother who takes care of him, so be your own inner child's mother, ask your child what happened and listen to his answer, love him and know his feelings, know what makes him sad and what obstacles his happiness, but what if he asks about his father?
Imagine a soulful father who can shield his child from the outside world; your inner father is your male energy.
Of course, this family, the child, the father, and the mother are all parts of you, but it's a simple example that can teach you how important it is to be happy and love yourself.

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Conclusion

Self-love necessitates a strong inner connection with oneself, which does not necessitate superpowers; instead, it necessitates high soul energy and in-depth contemplation of what is within us.
Try your hardest to create an ideal inner family, and I guarantee you'll find inner healing.