You Can Control Money Or Let It Control You : Gain Your Freedom
Funny how it sounds but we humans are being controlled by money and material things.
This give no room for a thinking space to deeply analyze what we really need to sustain as human.
Losing Control Is Easy When You Don't Know What You Need
Have you ever been planning a perfect plan for when you get your next pay check or someone close to you sent you a good deal amount of money to do whatever you want with it.
Then you realize after getting the credit alert or check, all your plans just vanished into thin air like it never happened.
This is the point where the $$$ signs takes the wheel and you just keep moving around like a robot getting things you want but don't need. I have been there and maybe I'm still there but I'm fighting to gain more control everyday.
At one point in life we all have to deal with managing our finances and controlling where our money goes to, from offline world to the virtual world if not it takes control of you without you knowing until its too late.
First Things First
A man's first basic need is food and water, you cannot do without these things else you die due to organ failure, an average man cannot survive without food and water for more than roughly 3 days. You can survive without food for up to 2 month when taking only water.
These two things are very essential in humans life for survival hence why we can never do without them in our lifetime.
After getting your basic needs ranging from foods stuffs and paying necessary bills if they are due, what you do with the rest is very important.
We also need clothing, but the thing is your choice of what you should wear is different from what I should wear, this also affects our portfolio, the temptation of getting the latest designer wears can easily get you in an uncomfortable position when you go bankrupt due to getting clothing you want but done necessarily need.
Some keep it simple why most don't , why? Its hard to keep it simple when you don't know what you need.
I know I have to wear something, eat something, but what exactly should I buy and wear matters.
In most cases the environmental features can also be a factor that controls our actions and before we realize it we've spent way too much trying to follow trends to feel among and buying clothing that's way above our portfolio.
Fighting the devil when he's not available
The way you spend it all on things you want instead of what you need in a minimalist way has now broken you down to the level where you find yourself in a financial hardship situation with little to almost nothing to get yourself daily meal or decent clothing.
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This is the lowest you can ever be and your zeal to manage the little you're now left with is high, but it's late already you've spent 85% of your portfolio getting things you don't need.
You need to be able to meet your basic needs but you now have lesser amount and trust me this is when you spend wisely, because the need to survive is high and you don't want to fu*k anything up again or you will starve and suffer the consequence before you get the next paycheck.
This is when the money isn't available to buy anything unnecessary and the devil leaves you alone but come to think of it you are the devil who tried to do what others are doing and got caught up in the process.
Without disciple and endurance you would still repeat what happened in the first place maybe this time it's something different, you didn't get the latest fashion designer jean/t-shirt but you have an idea that if you save up for a car hoping your transportation expenses would reduce, little did you know the cost of maintaining a car will further harm your portfolio.
Alot of crazy ideas will keep coming in but how do you find yourself getting things you need as still be able to save up in case of any emergency issue or trying to save up to get what you want, getting things we want isn't bad but you need to be sure it won't give you a set back else the regrets that comes with it later when you're down to level zero again.
The Way Out Is Not Only Control But Invest Your Time And Money
The best possible way out of this great breakdown after realizing your car would won't be the a solution to your problem gets you to sell it off and now you are left with a nice amount of cash and you don't know what to do next as you don't want to go through another financial hardship saga.
Get yourself another income and make sure you've done your homework about anything you're putting your money into, even if its just a little return, its a profit on your part and you're now using money to make money, the next thing would be to utilize the power of time and that little profit will evolve to massive gains.
The leverage you can use to conquer yourself and be in control is to get basic things that are needed to survive are food, water and simple living.
They can do the magic until you can afford what you want in the future but if you give in to the world and how others runs their life then your little profit might end up paying for your credit cards debts alone or regret your actions later.
This is just an idea that comes to my head and it has worked for me numerous time even though I fail to follow them accordingly or as planned, I'm just a human and I always pick myself up to start again.
The journey to financial freedom is rough but it's worth the try, are you the luxury type or simple living type.
You don't have to change anything if your profits can pay for your wants and needs.
See Ya Next Time 😊
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very interesting subject, it is really important not to become a slave to money, it is not easy, but being content with the minimum is perhaps the way to happiness, your health is your most important asset, it may sound cliché, but NOTHING matters without health.
Love your family too.
Yes you are right, it's not easy but being content with what you have is the best way to go and thay will make you even more happier than having millions of dollars and still not content with it.
Health is definitely a cliche, just as the saying goes health is wealth. That's a great addition.
Thanks for dropping by
Have a great day ahead
Love from Nigeria 💗
Family is Everything💯
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Have a good day, too. Lots of health and peace.
Love from Brasil
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You have to question yourself on what your end game is. Do you want money or a bunch of useless stuff, or do you want more time and freedom. If you use money as a tool for the ladder than you have less of a chance of falling in the trap of letting money run your life. Just think, what is it all for?
Exactly The end game matters, many are too caught up in the short term game of impressing other and getting alot of useless stuffs in the process just like you said.
The latter is what you can work on and be able to plan for the future of you and your family including people around you who will definitely benefit from your level of success in the long run.
The trap is easy to fall into these day and hopefully people starts waling up to realizing they are in a dream world.
Thanks for checking by😊
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Exactly, especially when you still have a lot to invest after getting your wants/needs.
I once read somewhere, that one should not save what is left after spending, but one should spend what is left after saving.
How ever investing is a better put..
Very true, even if you fail at it sometimes, the investing spirit in you will one day give you your desired outcome.
Thanks for dropping by brother
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You’re welcome brother
Actually this is true, money controls the mind and that’s why I right down a budget before I receive the money.
I have gotten controlled by money such that at a point I have excess and at one point I became broke out of the blue.
This is a beautiful one brother👌☺️
That's the very first sane thing we need to do then to be able to endure and follow the plan without deviating is now the real test.
Whichever ways we keep pushing things forward and someday we'll be more informed on ways to keep going and turning deaf ears to the environmental noise around.
Have a beautiful weekend mate😎
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