Accept the Fault.

Different people have different tastes, zest, behavior, and thinking processes. No one would be one hundred percent similar to someone else, there could be similarities but up to a certain limit. Often these dissimilarities lead us to conflict with the people around us. From our positions, we are always right. We do have our own stands behind our actions. A third person can clearly see the differences clearly. If someone is inappropriate then it's on us to make him realize and it's also compulsory for that person to realize the mistake and correct it. If you drag your ego between this then it's a gone case.

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Recently I got into such a clash with someone dear to me. Both of us were in charge of managing a particular responsibility. At a point, our thoughts were facing conflicts. Still, I was calm enough to negotiate everything to their respective places. In the end, he took a decision that was a great mistake. When I protested from my place to correct that mistake it did strike his ego. Because what he did was impossible to undo without his co-operation and his ego destroyed the whole task we were handling. Such a shame! It didn't matter how cooperative I was because all he was thinking of was his own self-respect. I don't wanna lower anyone's self-respect but when it comes to hampering a big responsibility then I won't be walking back without solving that. That person should also realize the mistake and compensate for that. If that compensation hurts your self-respect or ego then it's your mistake, none of the others.

We take action only because we think this is appropriate. It’s not mandatory that we will be always correct from our places. Sometimes mistakes do take place and we must pay the penalty. If you play fairly then you would accept that penalty pretty easily otherwise you would think of your loss and keep dragging that faulty move on and on that leads to bigger graves usually. Should have the mentality to take things easily and fix things for the greater good. Things get spoiled if the ego is dragged between the task. It will spoil for sure and did in my case. I don’t regret my stand because there is more guy who would stand for my decision as to the perfect one. I don’t understand why can’t we accept our faults easily, instead stick with them. We gotta change our mentality, right? It just ruins everything. I don’t know how to fix things that got spoiled between us but one thing I know for sure is I will be standing at my place because that’s the correct and appropriate for all which is already recognized by all. It’s in his account to accept the fault, say sorry, and fix it as needs to be.