Find Yourself.

Are you happy with your life? If yes that's good, if not that's also good. Because happiness and sadness all are temporary in our life. Nothing lasts for starting to end. What's the fun on having the same thing again and again? We do crave for ever lasting happiness for us but how will you know what's the worth of happiness if you don't feel the shades of sadness. So both of them go hand in hand in our life, we can't stick to one forever. That's how the wheel of life goes.

Happiness can be shared with everyone without any hesitation, that enrich the level of happiness. It is said that happiness grows bigger and bigger while sharing with others. So there is no say in spreading happiness. That's all we want to be happy and share with all. What about sadness? Most of us find it difficult to share those feelings with everyone, even with the very few people around us. We search for a person to whom we can share our those feelings without any hesitations and insecurities. Its a blessing to find such person within us. That gives a relief in sharing the pain and taking some good advise and support from the person. That really helps with us.

But you know what sometimes you can't really share everything to others. There remains some reasons which refrain you from sharing with others. On those cases we need to make our-self our own support. We need to be our own inspiration, our own hand to hold ourself. If you can't be strong enough to hold yourself then no one can really handle you well. No matter how much sympathy you get, how much support you are having, how much advises on your back nothing will work effectively unless you stand straight with yourself. If you are broken inside then how will people cure from the outside. You know your pains best and only you know how those will be healed. Other people can only help on that healing process. Main tasks are in your hand.

Think of a person who is leading his life with the support and pushes from others. There is a point that we cant live alone, we do need support from others, that's fine and i am also not disagreeing with that point. What i am trying to point out is that inspite of having such supports if you can't build our own strength to hold yourself within you then you are in a serious problem man. You can't always expect for the people behind you when you will need them. There are some times when your only company will be only you. Are you well prepared to help yourself out on those situations? Ask this question to yourself, find out some situation when you will be in trouble, think of getting out from that on your own. So what's the result? Will you be able to cope with the situation and win over that by yourself? If yes, congrats you are a fighter in this long run of life, you are strong enough to survive in this bull run of life and if not, get up kiddo! A long way to go in learning the way of life and exercise yourself for the fights.

Month ago one of my friend met with a cruel result of life. He was scattered into pieces. We the friends of him supported and stayed beside him as much as we could. He got the support, love, sympathy, time and everything he could expect from us. But in the end of the day he was left alone to fight the last round alone, every night he used to text his hardships with that incident he faced. He struggled, he suffered, he learned and now he has almost won over that and having a normal life. So you cant really make a change unless you are on the field and fighting by your own.

Even if you are trying to achieve something what could be your best inspiration or motivation? Other people can only show you some options available in their eyes for you if you try to win. But what's the best reward for you is only well-known by yourself. Only you can know what would be the real cost of this. That's the winning price set by yourself and the most appropriate motivation that would hit the bulls eye for you.

You know what, i personally don't feel so comfortable in sharing my personal problems with others. I keep them within myself as much as i can. I don't like the sympathy of others, it makes me feel more helpless to myself. Even i think of some foolish outcome like people would mock on my failures. I would be ashamed on those. In these fear i try to keep everything within myself. I know that this is not the way, i should share these to feel relieved and find out best ways to cope with them. I do sometimes but most of the time i am on my own company. I get the best suitable outcomes for myself. I fight with my own problems in my own ways because its me who best knows how to fight with my inner problems i am having. Advises or the sympathies from the other's won't be hundred parcent perfect on my case. Oh another thing, i am too much diplomatic person. Thats what said by one of my beloved person, she is not with me anymore but sometimes i feel that kinda right about me. So equations of myself maybe not hundred parcent accurate on your case yet i am feeling good on sharing with you guys.

So where was i? Ah! Ok forget that. Lets start a new phase. It really doesn’t cost much on building yourself as your best buddy to help you out on different circumstances of our life. That has an inner satisfaction which can't be felt by everyone. So life is a journey to me with too many hardships. Here we met and encounter with so many happiness and problems. We find so many friends family and dearest ones beside us and they will be standing beside us that's what we expect mostly. Yeah, that's perfect fine. But it is not enough to be satisfied with, your best satisfaction should be your own support, inspiration, sympathy and guidence. That's what i call true satisfaction on the way of life. Find out the best in yourself and face every circumstances with a bold reply. That's how we become the fighters in our life.