From My End.

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Different people with different taste and zest, different in their behaviour and judgements. As a social being you can't be going alone in this society, need to get hold of others and stay together. It's good to get people who understand your thoughts and codes of behaviour, with those you can freely be yourself. Also there are some people opposite from yours type, with them you can't be really adjusted. Conflicts between thoughts and behaviour would be common in that case.

It is very easy to see the circumstances where we get into conflicts with others because of the clash of our thoughts and behaviour. Maybe the opposite person is not comfortable with your action, maybe he doesn’t prefer your code of behaviour with him. But what can we do? Always we can't be as per as others desires. We too have our own ways to follow,own thoughts and actions to perform. Why would we be melting our-self only to comfort others when i am correct from my end? No reason.

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What's my opinion on these circumstances? Well, i do believe in being my own-self. I will be pleasing myself with my actions because i wanna be satisfied with myself so that none can question that. When you are correct in yourself then the talks of others won't effect you anymore. Try to be perfect from your end. Always build up this confidence to get hold of your actions that these are right,okay? I am okay with my actions.

You can't always please others. Its not easy to shoot multiple targets with one shoot. You alone can't keep the expectations of others at a time. It becomes contradictory sometimes. Your actions may please someone and on the other hand someone else may find it appropriate. You can't change that easily, its normal. You can do is modify that from being inside of your satisfaction of the comfort zone you prefer and try to win them too. We should never go beyond our own will and preferences. Those things lower our own self.

You know what? I am always in the motive to please myself first and then expect others to be. Let's see a common example here what we do nearly everyday. Here i am writing a blog for posting. After publishing it will go to many of you. Everyone will not like it obviously. Different people, different opinions and thoughts. They may point out the points in a different way and can make an argue too in their positions. But before all this it will need to please me to publish that publicly. If I feel like its not good then how will I publish that? If i feel that It's perfect now then i will be pressing that publish button. From my end i am satisfied with it and now okay to go with it. Some will find it appropriate and praise about it and i am happy with that. Some will not and i am also okay with that.That's normal, nothing wrong here.

So always try to be perfect/comfortable from your end first and then you will be started to please others. As all the fingers are not the same so our one actions may not hit all the targets at a time too.



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