Happiness over the Best.

In our lives we get plenty of options to choose on many things. From those we don't need to select which one is the best but we need to select what makes us happy. Yes! That's what it should work about.

In more words, what i am trying to say is that the best things can't always ensure happiness. They can have drawbacks too. Without going for those we can still find the sight of happiness. For us this should matter most. We can't gain anything by showing off the best title but we can have happiness without that. Instead of trying after the best we end up losing our happiness. We should watch over our capabilities too, we should consider whether we will be able to acquire the best one for us or not. Its more appropriate as a material object in our life. Maybe you are dreaming of the world's best car but you don’t have the ability to purchase that one so what should you do? Find the appropriate one you can afford and be happy.

Think of a friend who got a girlfriend. You see her not to be very beautiful. Maybe she isn’t so good at looking. Does it matter too much? No, as long as your friend is happy with her. For him it was not about her beauty, it was about her inner self that could have attracted him too much. He found his happiness in her and that's why she is his soulmate. Here you don't need to compare with a best or not, he is happy with her that's all that matters.

Well, it's not that I am getting the opposite of the best things. They are best and we should get them too but what if they are beyond our reach and we end up being sad or scattered on that. Those are not accepted in my concept, so in those situations we shouldn’t be after the best ones. We should choose the one which would make us happy. Now the question arises if the only best one can make him or her happy? Well that's a complex situation to get the solution. If something beyond our reach becomes our goal then we can do nothing without working hard enough to get to that. Nothing is impossible, so you needed to work hard and hard for that. If that is your happiness then obviously you can work hard and acquire your happiness.

So what it is I am trying to say is all the best things can't be the one of your happiness, without sorting via the best ones we should sort by the happy one filters in our life.