Remove our dusts.
Nowadays its very hard to find the peace of mind within us. Most of us suffer from various stress and tensions along with the happy moments. Negative feelings go hand in hand with the positive one's. How far we can drag them is dependent on us. Some people are found to be struggling with them on a daily basis and learn to control it. In which shore are you in? Winning over it by fighting or losing yourself to it.
Let's talk about myself, there was a time when i would have offended others with unpleasant action with me and remember them for a long time. Bear those memories and grow up a negative relation towards them. Even if I would have kept others' negative sides into my heart,i would always hate them. If someone did any wrong with me i wouldn’t be able to forgive them easily. I would cherish them into myself and spread negative feelings about them within myself. Even the pains would pile up in me and bother me little by little.
Those negativity would keep me haunted in every actions of mine. My actions would reflect negativities. Heart is filled with negative thoughts. I would find negative impressions on everything I end up doing. So after a while I started to bring a change, thought of cleaning those negative dust. Started to forgive everyone. Actually its true that people start to feel good when they learn to forgive. Cleaning the heart let's us feel fresh and see the positives around us. That's how we should change our inner system.
There is a peace in forgiving people. It gives a noble satisfaction which can't be bought by money. Even you will have uncountable friends around you when you acquire this quality, because people love such kinds of person. Its not that you will bear injustice everytime and keep forgiving. Its like forgiving them and making them realise about that while being silent and polite. I know these strike hard on us.But trust me this is a good one to remove dust from your hearts.
Our hearts are full of dust because of these things for which we are not able to enjoy the real juice of our life. Its feels tasteless as our hearts are polluted. So its high time we are cleaning those dust from our hearts and enjoy life to its full taste. There is nothing to be gained on keeping those dust except some drawbacks. Let's clean our hearts, live our lives in its full rhythm, that's the beauty of life.
There is a saying that holding a grudge only hurts the person holding it. If someone does me something bad and I refuse to let go I hurt myself not them.
Follow peace with all men.
When things are beyond your control, you simply just let them go. And that always applies to negative emotions
Yeah,You are correct.Sometimes holding a thing does more damage then letting it go.
Well the beauty of this life, is having a clean and free heart. I've tried holding and storing pains, regrets, blames and worries. But none to my profit. instead it hurts me and break me little by little.
As @nonsowrites said "Follow peace with all men."
I think you are feeling much better then before on cleaning those dust. Those has no gains instead pull us down.
Thank you for your time and valuable opinion.