FEAR OF UNCERTAINTIES

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One thing a lot of humans have in common is fear. I doubt if there is anyone who doesn't have a secret fear. We have been told severally that our greatest enemy is fear but then, it's still one thing that we face almost on daily basis. As humans, it's normal to be afraid of something. Personally, I can't control every thought that flies into my mind and so fear come in as well but what matters is how I handle those fears within me.

....And so my greatest fear in life is the fear of losing my life.

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I have undergone 3 surgeries while giving birth and I hear about how women lose their lives in the theater. Each time I was about to go into the theater, I always fear death. My blood pressure always rises to a very high value out of fear. A lot of things will be running into my little mind, I will ponder on how my family will cope if anything should happen to me. In fact, I will literally put some things in order in case I don't make it as if I am the owner of my life 🤦. You don't have to blame me, would you? I am only a human and can't control what goes into my mind. But I am grateful to God that in all the theater encounters, I have overcome death which has been my greatest fear. This day, anytime my inlaws try teasing me that I should try in the future to give birth to a baby girl, hmm, I don't even process the information because that theater isn't someone's friend and so I decline immediately.

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Traveling? I do fear being an accident victim and probably losing my life. I will literally be praying until I reach my destination. This kind of fear has eaten deep into me to the extent that if there is a means of having an artificial wing that I can use to fly to my destination without entering a flight or car, I would use it🤣🤣🤦. My husband set to travel? My heart will skip in fear of the uncertainties. Should anything happen to him, how do I cope with my kids, how will I survive it? How will only I handle this and that?
I also fear losing any of my children or my loved ones. These will be the thought occupying my mind and they are negative energies.

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Oh yes, I have been coping with this fear...

So because it's normal for any kind of fear to get into my mind, I have been coping with it by advising myself positively. Once the thought comes, I rush and carry my holy bible and draw strength, and courage from it. I also reach out to my spiritual mentor and she will feed my ears with the words of God and immediately, I will break out from the shell of fear. So far this method has been helping me cope with my fear.

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I love that you quickly go to your Bible for guide. The word of God is always there to encourage us and we are to have faith and be positive.

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Yes, my dear. The word of God is powerful and is capable of healing the broken hearted .

I appreciate your visit💪

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Good you always pray traveling
The devil is just trying to manipulate our minds with fear.
It happens to me sometimes, but then i cast the fear out

But prayer is the greatest

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Cast the rest out immediately my dear.
I concur with you, prayer does the magic💪

I appreciate your visit my dear

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Yes sure i do
And immediately I think about it, i fill my mind with something positive

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It is permitted to fear about it...in as much as we can try to run away from it...But everything would be great

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My sister, May God deliver us from the power of fear.
Hebrew 2: 14-15.
Remain blessed.

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Fear of death is usually the hardest to overcome but then again we have to accept it and draw solace as well as courage in the word of God.

This kind of fear has eaten deep into me to the extent that if there is a means of having an artificial wing that I can use to fly to my destination without entering a flight or car, I would use it🤣🤣🤦.

Haha! This caught my eye because I mentioned something like this today. My mom and I were talking about how no mode of transportation is safe, as they're all susceptible to accidents. And I was like "The best option is to have wings to fly to our respective destinations whenever we wish to travel." 😅
May God help us 🤲. Thanks for sharing ma.

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Hahaha
An artificial wing would have been good oo if possible 🤩

Wow...ur comments are always top notch ,thanks sis

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It's not weird at all for people to have this sort of fear. I believe everyone wants to be alive so, if we have an idea of anything that can shorten our life span, it's always advisable to stay away from it.

In your case, I'm very positive about it. Regardless of the number of times you step inside a labour room, it will always be a favor room for you so, no worries. Hehe. But, if you have decided to not have another child, it's still a very wise decision.

As far as it's your decision, everything will work out well.


Did you notice that the image url in this post is leading to a dead end? You might have made some mistake while sourcing the image. Try to fix it when you see this comment.

Thanks for sharing this on DreemPort.

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Awwww, your words are soothing 💞
Thanks a bunch for your kind words..

Did you notice that the image url in this post is leading to a dead end?

Oh my God! I just checked 🤭
Thanks for drawing my attention to this.👍

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This fears are normal. Right now, I am wondering how childbirth will be for me. And yeah, I am scared too. But like you I allow positivity to flood the negativity out.

I am glad the scripture is your go-to for your comfort. Well done.

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Right now, I am wondering how childbirth will be for me.
Smiles...it will be so smooth for you 🥰. Destiny differs remember.

I appreciate your awesome comment.
Thanks a bunch Iskafan👍

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I'm not sure you are scared because you've done the surgeries more than once and I think that's really brave of you.

Either ways, I truly hope you overcome your fears totally. Dreemport brought me here.

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Wowww
I am trying my best to totally overcome all kinds of fear in me.

Thanks for ur warm visit

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That's good, all the best 🥰.

You're welcome, it was a beautiful visit 🤗.

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The delivery room is one place that sends shivers down my spine. I am not a mother yet but looking forward to being one someday soon. However tales I've heard of the delivery room gives me high blood pressure with a lot of what ifs? I hate to think of it but that fear is there and I truly pray that when the time comes for me it will be a smooth one.

I don't have fear of travelling but with the recent insecurity in the country, I think I might just add it to my list of things I fear. Imagine being kidnapped by these terrorists. I don't even want to think about it. This is why one been traveling by air until the recent increase in fare. For now I am stuck in my house. I'm not traveling anywhere.

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Wowww, thanks for your warm visit 🥰
only the settings in the theater scare a living hell out of me... Lolz, but like I use to tell some mothers, destiny differs...When the time comes for you to give birth sis @zyzymena , I wish you a smoother journey 🙏

Traveling by air comes with a lesser fear but the recent cost is horrible. Feb this year, I paid 24k to travel from Lagos to Enugu, last week, I tried booking the same location and the price skyrocketed to 65k. I screamed!!!!! 🤩🤩🤩

It's my twin brother's wedding, so I must travel. But by air? I don't have such money, however, I am still imagining the stress and fear my baby and I will face if we should use road transport.

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Yes dear! The prices have skyrocketed. It's now between 50-60k. It's crazy. Oh dear! Imagine such a long road trip by road with your child. Well I pray God provides for you or hive provides for you😜.

Thanks for your prayers I say amen to it. Happy married life to your twin brother.

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Smiles....

And I say, a big Amen to your prayers, Thanks a bunch sis🥰

!ALIVE
!LADY

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