My Love-Hate Relationship With Rain

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Where I am from, Nigeria, there are basically just two seasons; wet and dry. The wet season lasts from April to October, while the dry lasts from November to March. That is seven months for rainy days and five for dry days. And in either of these two seasons, there are not many days where there is a good balance with the weather. When it is hot, it is usually really hot, and when it comes to rainy days, like the season we are in, it just keeps raining like Zeus is playing with the shower.

At this moment, I cannot even remember the last time it did not rain. Now, it seems like the rain is playing games with me. Why is it that the clouds start coughing at the very moment I want to do my laundry? We all know a shower of rain can disrupt plans. For some others, it is a very good avenue for their plans.

Whenever the weather gets all cold and rainy, there are always memes regarding it. And all these memes are usually centered around "weather for two." But no matter how hard I try, I seem to never understand these memes. Oh well, whatever they mean.

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The Payne

I am not the type of person who really sticks to routines and schedules. My claim is always, "I am a spontaneous person and I cannot be boxed in by repeated patterns." Yes, I cannot be far from wrong, as this is clearly an excuse to stay inconsistent. And consistency is not so hard, actually, if only we were realistic with our goals sometimes. But there are certain things that usually happen when it rains incessantly, as it has been lately:

Some form of illness may just choose to stop by. There was a time when I would always have this situation with catarrh (I think that's how it's spelt) every year.


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I would just be dealing with it for about a month or two. And the weirdest thing was that it was always happening around the same time every year. But it does not happen that way anymore, thank goodness.


The sweet breeze...

I do have one bad habit, though, which is leaving all three of my windows widely open at night, even when it is really raining. Which leads on to my love relationship with the rain. I so love the cool weather. If it isn't raining in Nigeria, the entire atmosphere can sometimes feel like an oven.

I do not like to be in a room that is "stuffy," as we would call it here. And this happens when there is poor ventilation. The whole room could feel as if it was closing in on itself. So, when it comes to rainy nights, I disregard the extreme cold and just leave them open. It usually feels good, despite the consequences that may follow.


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One thing that I love the rain for is the setting it gives when I watch movies. just me, or maybe with someone else (very unlikely), with my earphones at top volume. The rain somehow makes the movie much sweeter to enjoy, especially with thriller films.

I play chess a very whole lot. So, if I am not seeing a movie with the rain, I am probably in front of Chess.com playing with strangers or friends online.


The travel issue, again...

Like I said earlier, the rain is very effective in disrupting plans and causing undesirable events. And one reason is in the aspect of travel. One of the worst times to travel in Nigeria, particularly Lagos, is during the rain.

Lagos is a city known for having the highest number of traffic jams, or "go-slow" as we would normally term it (I'm not sure how it is actually spelled). And on any day it rains, there are bound to be serious traffic jams as the majority of the roads will be rendered useless.


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So whenever I have plans to be in that city and see signs of rain, I just have to change my plans. And change of plans is something I really do not like.

Speaking of plans, I was meant to get somewhere today. But then, you know, another session of rain.


NEPA must dry wire…

If you do not know what NEPA means, it stands for National Electric Power Authority (I just learned the full meaning). It is the power distribution sector for Nigeria. They are responsible for generating electricity and bringing it to our homes, offices, and everywhere else. But that’s not what they go by now. It is now PHCN (Power Holding Company of Nigeria), but nobody ever says that, so it is just NEPA. There are many things (stories) tied to this body, but I’ll only share the one particular to rain.

You see, we do not have regular or consistent power supply in Nigeria, unless you live next to the president or a governor, or in some exotic area. And one of their many excuses is "the weather". So when it is about to rain, they take down the electricity (power outage), but rather than returning it after the rain, they may leave it that way for days. So whenever this happens, we take it that they are probably still drying off their cables till they can restore the power, hence the popular statement, "NEPA still dey dry wire" (NEPA is still drying the cables).


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In other words, when it is raining a lot like it is, we have really poor electricity. This affects me a lot because then I have to struggle with power to keep up with my online activities.


Rain, Rain, go away…

TD;DR


In a country where the heat can be intense on some days, the cool air rain brings is something that almost everyone would not mind. But when the rain happens every day, there are so many things that will not go well.

For me, I love the cool breeze and atmosphere it brings and the solitude it can provide me on days that I need it. But that usually comes with some price to pay.

This just basically points to how insatiable we humans can be. We’d want "this" today, and when it comes, we could then want "that" instead.

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Olujay is a Nigerian musician (guitarist and singer) based in Nigeria. He is currently in his final year studying mechatronics engineering at the Federal University of Agriculture, Abeokuta.

He strongly believes that everyone has the ability to affect change in some manner, and that we all have the capability to influence others.

One of his many goals is to become the best version of himself that he can attain. And, in doing so, maintain balance in order to do everything well.

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Omoh na that dry wire dey vex me pass. If rain fall, just know they would take almost two days to dry wire. But I am very glad that they are not doing that in my side. I got to know about that routine during my poly days.

For me, the rainy season is the perfect situation to have your bae around but at the same time, a way for singles like us to squeeze and cuddle our pillows.

I don't think the universe is at your side of travelling.

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...for singles like us to squeeze and cuddle our pillows.

You even get pillow...

I don't think the universe is at your side of travelling.

The Universe and I have come to an agreement. I am now in Abk

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Soooo @olujay you don't have a pillow to squeeze and cuddle either🤔? Hmmmmm.

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Humans are really insatiable and that is our nature. Lol

NEPA must dry wire…

As in... I so much get frustrated with situations like this. Breeze will only be blowing and before you know it, fiam! Nepa don take light and it may take days to be restored. At this rainy season, we don't enjoy electricity.

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The raining season is something else in Lagos. Apart from the relief the cool weather brings, the rain doesn't really help Lagosians in any way. We have bad drainage systems, bus fares are hiked, and there's the NEPA wahala too. It's just a bit of crazy here.
It'll soon be over (I hope).

Since last week, I have been drenched on three different occasions. The rain just decides to start anytime I decide to go home. A friend of mine said she thinks the "rain likes me", I think it's a toxic relationship and we need to set boundaries. 😑😅

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...bus fares are hiked

This one is even the most annoying. Most times, the fares are doubled.

"It'll soon be over." Hmmm...I really do not know about that, but I'll hold on to hope.

I think it's a toxic relationship and we need to set boundaries.

Haha...showers of blessing my friend. Embrace it...carry swim suit next time

Thanks reading bro...

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Yes ooo, we know NEPA must dry wire🤣🤣. It will rain for two day, NEPA will dry wire for one week, it's their tradition

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That thing dey vex person ehnn...

Thanks for reading jare

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Aww... in our little slice of the country, power has been quite steady for this duration of constant rain. I still don't know how long they will keep this up, but I am enjoying it. Hopefully, it will spread to the rest of the country.
Thank you for sharing this with us.

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...power has been quite steady for this duration of constant rain

Wow, that is really good. It saves you the whole headache of trying t0 stay online.

I do hope it spreads across the country, soon!

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It really does feel like oven o. I salute those who stay in the northern part of naija

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Hmmm...But is it not usually cold at the North?

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That NEPA part got my attention the most... "They must dry wire" 😃😃 they can be very annoying, this is Nigeria where rain is an excuse of not supplying electricity to people. Even when there's nothing wrong with the the wires or poles.
All na scam.
That name NEPA cannot leave our mouth sha..

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Clearly nothing wrong with the poles...
Just another excuse to not give us what we are paying for...All na scam

That name NEPA cannot leave our mouth sha..

If them like, they shoulf call it XYZ, na still "Up NEPA," periodt...

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You Gerrit 😃😃 still up NEPA ooo till tomorrow.

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Hehe...you even dey get light for inside this rain

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Lol 😃😃 they gave us sallah bonus

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Just dey enjoy am lke that o

Everyday no be sallah

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Lol, you see that NEPA and drying wire aspect, it's the only reason I pray for rain not to fall. If it's about the cool breeze, count me in o😁😁.

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It is NEPA that is just spoiling the parole. The cold is sweeter...

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