White Plays Knight to f3 || Untethering From The Digital Space

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All my life, all I have ever known is computers and gadgets that make life much easier for one. I have always been the kind that has always looked for the quickest and easiest way to do things. But my parents often told me that wasn't the way of a hardworking man. What a bummer to be told that as a kid. All I ever wanted was the soft life.


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At the time, the "soft life" meant having machines do my laundry and dishes and owning an autonomous vehicle that didn't require me to drive myself too often. And an automated butler that would basically do the darn chores I had to do every morning. At that time, I always wondered for what reason one should be doing chores every single day. And if it really had to be done every day, an auto-butler wouldn't be so bad.

Having such thoughts and imaginations as a kid was quite absurd in the sense that I seemed to want to turn out to be a lazy kid. Even though that was partially true (I was actually being lazy), all I really had in the back of my mind was the knowledge that technology was growing and expanding. I knew that technology could make life much easier. So why not allow it? :)

The world has grown so much that it heavily depends on the technology we have today. In one way or another, many of us have adopted these machines into our everyday lives; in our businesses, social lives, etc. They basically surround us.

Without much thought to it, it is well known how these gadgets improve our lives. And without them, the world sure would be different. However, there are many downsides to being tethered so much to them.

I've never considered living without one of my devices, my computer, my phone, my earphones, the internet... It was only recently, after seeing G-dogs prompts for the weekend on the "no-device weekend," and thinking about it, that I realised that I had never really done so.

I mean, I live in a country where electricity is unstable, irregular, and uncertain. So, having my devices without power (even for a long time) is not new to me. It is choosing to stay away from them for a long time, even if they have power, that I have never really done.

Taking more time to sleep

I do not know how people sleep for more than 7 hours at a stretch... It's just not something I've been able to do regularly.

Whenever I choose to sleep or take a nap, I always wake up in a few hours. I think this may be owing to the fact that I live on the internet mostly. There is always one thing or another to check on, thereby depriving me of much needed rest.

Taking more time to rest and relax wouldn't be all that bad to do. I know how revitalizing and beneficial it can be to sleep for long periods of time on a regular basis.

There's even a book I tried to read. It's Why We Sleep by Matthew Walker. As the title implies, it is about the reason we sleep, its essence, and misconceptions about it. And in the few pages that I have read, I already know that I am only hurting myself by not sleeping often.

Finishing that book

Speaking of reading books, I am the type to pick up books with fancy titles start them, but not the type to actually finish them. I think it's because the books I see now do not have them colorful and pretty pictures like the ones I read as a kid. I am just kiddin... I am just not a book person.

The internet has made us rely so much on it for acquiring information. It provides quick answers to questions that one may have, allowing people like us to keep being lazy at reading actual books.

I have a few books that I started and never finished. I would like to get back to them and finish what I started.:)

Visit friends and appreciate nature more

I do not do this, I'd admit. All my friends and I just communicate over social media and never really see the need to meet in person. How about checking them for real and having physical conversations with them? Who knows…? I may discover that some of them already have kids.

Nature has a really good way of mixing up colors. It does so in a better way than any human could. Going out with a couple of friends to see places that have beautiful scenery and where the air is just so peaceful and clean too, would definitely be a good way to unwind.

Write again.

There's this journal I started about two years ago, where I actually started to write, but haven't visited in a very long time.

To me, writing is like a portal to another dimension, one with mirrors everywhere. In that dimension, I get to reflect on who I really am, what the heck I am frigging doing in this world, and where it is I would like to find myself in a couple of minutes.


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Since I started to write, I have been able to very much assess my thoughts, aspirations, and emotions. And the time I got that journal was when I actually discovered it. But I have not done that in such a very long time. I mean, I write quite often here on Hive, but it really is much different from when I pick up a pen and put down some words.

White plays Knight to f3

I have been playing chess for a very long time. And although I do not play professionally, I have come to love it very much. It is among many of the few things I do and cherish.

However, the last time I actually felt so enthusiastic and pumped about it was about two years ago during the pandemic. During that time, I was able to improve so much on it. I practically spent 10 hours at least every day playing with different people, mostly over the internet.


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There are spots in town where one would stop by on some days and play with really good people, and we'd all smile and frown at our wins and losses. I'd like to do that again. I have missed the thrill of winning and also losing.

I also have stopped learning. Taking time away from devices will allow for some time to invest in picking up things again. For a start, I could really work on my rating on Lichess, which I have terribly declined in. I mean, I used to be so close to being rated 2000 then. I sure would have gotten much better by now.


This post is in response to the #WEEKEND-ENGAGEMENT topic, "The no-device weekend". If you would like to know more about it and the community, click here.


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This is so important to do :)

The sleep thing. I have a feeling that the white screen stimulates the brain in a totally different way and this messes with the sleep (which research does say) but that it also somehow makes one feel as though they've missed sleep somehow.

I get really "tired" if I'm in front of a screen to much. I even look different! So I guess that's "proof" it does stimulate us too much of sorts.

I love the internet but balance is so important for health. Still working on that daily here as well.

Thanks for the reminder!

Also... do you wanna play some chess online sometimes? 😈 I'm a novice but could do with some learning for sure

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Little wonder why I feel so exhausted when I spend so much time in front of my PC.

There's this exasperation I feel when look at screens all day. It's almost like I feel like I have not slept for days.

I mean, the internet is all great, but one cannot overemphasize the importance of sleeping well. Research does say that it helps bring one to equilibrium state. That's a good thing.


Do I not want to play chess online sometimes?? Of course I do!

How do we link up? Do you use Lichess, Chess.com, or Chess24?

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Sleep is totally underrated!

:)

Oh goody!

chess.com but I haven't used that account forever so say which and when and I'm in. Be kind! I'm a novice and here to learn

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I haven't used chess.com in a long while as well, but we can work with it.

Here's an invite link to play. Nickydee VS Olujay | 10 min, casual

Believe me, I do not underestimate anybody. That's the first step to losing to anybody.

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Those are wise words indeed Jedi master... I'm on my way :)

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😅😅

I guess I listened to Master Yoda too much as a kid.

I'll be there...

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Now I'm also new to the app and haven't used it much... I've lost you again :/

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My handle: newfrontiers

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I guess the HF26 is messing with my notifications. This came in really late.

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Hmm, sir you need to stay away from your devices at least for one weekend, all of these things you have mentioned are something you just need to do once in a while and it feels like your while is taking a long time to come.

Someone once told me that, I should take care of myself because once I die the things I'm fighting for still be there but then I will be gone, hard saying sha 🤧.

Good morning Joe 🥰.

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I think staying away from devices for a while is a good health practice that's necessary for every practice every once in a while. And I may as well begin to do that.

Yes! ...to the person that once told you that. One's wellbeing should be at the top of their priorities. Any other thing can follow.

Good morning (after two days... lol)

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Yes Joe, you should do that.

Smiles, I'm happy you agree with the person 🥰.

Lolz, Good morning.

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Those are some of the things I want to do as well in case there is no phone for a weekend. Especially the journaling. Been a while since I did it.

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Journaling is a great practice to reflect on oneself.

Thanks for reading.

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Who knows, I may discover that some of them already have kids?

This got me 😂😂🤣🤣, now that wouldn't be so nice, especially if they didn't mention it before.

I feel the way you feel about technology 😂, if I can get help with those things, why not? And my devices too, basically everything I do is on my phone, even the books I read, school books and otherwise. But these chores are serving a purpose I think. They're probably the little things that help us interact with our immediate environment, remind us to have a relationship with the people and things around us.

And journaling! Niice, I own journalsss myself, it's therapeutic.

These things you mentioned sound fun, perhaps you should abandon the internet for a while and explore.

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... especially if they didn't mention it before.

These days people are doing alot of things that even their close friends may not even know. Some people are taking "privacy" to another whole level. So yeah, I will not be surprised.

The sad truth is that we can do without them, we have just gotten too accustomed to them that a life without them seems quite vague. And as for chores, they are a really good way for one to remember that we're all not cyborgs: There's life to live.

I only have one. I am looking forward to filling it and getting another. Indeed, it's theraupeautic (God knows that was hard to spell).

They not only sound fun, but are actually beneficial. One should try detoxing once a while. And now, I am considering setting times to actually practice them.

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God knows that was hard to spell

😂😂 No thanks to this strike eh?

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To me, writing is like a portal to another dimension, one with mirrors everywhere. In that dimension, I get to reflect on who I really am, what the heck I am frigging doing in this world, and where it is I would like to find myself in a couple of minutes.

I've always thought this happens to only me, thank God I'm not the only weirdo in this space. It is actually another dimension that makes you see a reflection of yourself and you be like really!!.

Honestly, it is only my craft that takes my mobile devices from me in fact, I even to choose to multitask sometimes.

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We wierdos are quite many in space. We keep popping out from every corner. Writing indeed is therapeutic.

What exactly is your craft, if I may ask?


I see you trying to quote people. The right way to do that is by adding ">" right before the statement. And then, you leave a space right after to leave your reply.

I see you trying to quote people. The simple way to do that is by adding ">" right before the statement. And then, you leave a space right after to leave your reply.

Just like this.

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I see you trying to quote people. The right way to do that is by adding ">" right before the statement. And then, you leave a space right after to leave your reply.

Wow! This is expensive, thanks for the knowledge shared bro.

Ehmm okay, regarding my craft. I'm a FASHION DESIGNER yeah, I do both the art and the craft.

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Whenever I choose to sleep or take a nap, I always wake up in a few hours. I think this may be owing to the fact that I live on the internet mostly.

This is so me, I would b angry that I haven't slept properly but still I would be in the net surfing, completing tasks asf. And at the end sleep late😂
Yesterday was an perfect example, I was writing a story for almost two days and yesterday I was like... I must finish it no matter what happens.

Indeed I finished it o but the time was already 4:40am in the morning...I was angry at how time flew and I was like let me sleep and then I have a movie I'm watching with free gigabyte... I started watching movie till six in morning... hehe very funny how this devices keeps one engaged... that's basically what I need.

Speaking of reading books, I am the type to pick up books with fancy titles start them, but not the type to actually finish them.

Hehe... funny experience of mine... I read this story and stopped in chapter 6 ... it's 13 chapters altogether .
Now since I can't read it any longer due to one or two... I downloaded the PDF and sent it to me book reader in phone haha... till date I haven't read it lmao 😂😂😂.. so annoying

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Keeping up with everything these days has been quite a challenge. One moment you are trying to engage on Hive, the next moment, other tasks (say work) comes up. At when it comes to doing some of these things at night, some of them scatter before my eyes and I end up with less productivity. Many of my days are like this.

At least, you finished the story. You would have been even more vexed at yourself if you had spent such time and still could not finish. I actually admire you story writers. I have tried and I come to realise that it is not for me...😁

The problem is that we now have everything at the tip of our fingers. If it had been in those days we had to get to a cinema to actually see a movie, you may have gone straight to bed....😅

till date I haven't read it lmao 😂😂😂.. so annoying

We are plenty on this table then.😁

I am trying to be intentional about it now, though. I'm starting out with this book by Larry King, How to Talk to Anyone, Anytime, Anywhere. It's been laying around for ages now. Let's see how it goes.

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Cool 😎

You have said it all already... not so easy at all...
I would have loved to add that book to my list but what's the essence when I can't read it yet.... maybe some others time.

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Are you based in Nigeria? You seem from Canada to me.

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