Control Your Self and Fear

We all need that Self control to coordinate and control our body. Been unable to control self could cause so many things. That's more reason most parents don't allow their male child to sleep with their female child, they get them separate room because any thing can happen especially when they are still very young and this is not the matter of being a basterd or not basterd. Normally, it is not advisable for unmatured children to sleep together except if you have studied them and know what they can do and undo.

Self control does not deal with age. Some have while some don't have but the fact remains that there is a condition that we will find ourselves that we try to control our feelings, emotions but it wouldn't work (in another perspective) One of it is Fear. And what is fear? Fear is Uncontrollable emotions, the state of being afraid what we see or not, frighten.
Fear comes from our heart is not that we plan for it, it shows fort itsself when we see something scary that's why our heart beats faster at that period. its only few people that can control their fear that while majority needs someone to calm them down.

Just like when we wants to defend our project, our supervisor called us to his office to prepare, rehearse and give us tips beforehand. Their is one lady whom her voice was skipping when presenting to our supervisor. She was corrected but when she got to time to present for other lectures she repeated same thing just because of fear. She was unable to control her fear.

Fear wouldn't let someone get help in life. Where we should talk and express our feelings and we didn't because of fear, we will see that such opportunity might elude at that particular time.
At the same time is good to fear, it nature of human being, even taking a look at it from the origin, Adam and Even they created the fear and we inherented it after eating the forbidden fruit.