Let go of the past

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I am not trying to abolished the fact that we shouldn't lives with our experience but in some occasions I think the past should remains the past and not to be brought into our presents.

I once had an interaction with a friend who said, he is angry with her sister because she refused to take a life changing opportunity that should have change their family's life, it happens that she was the eldest and by that time him and his brother were still kid but her sister refused to accept the opportunity and which he thinks she is the reason his life is not going forward, I look at him and i smiled, I let him know that what happened wasn't her sister's fault, but the thing was that, she had tried her best and to get it straight, I think she didn't refused the opportunity but she had exhausted her limit.

Moreover, it pays no man to be living with past, because some memories of the past, does not have good stories, some are scary incidents and some are sad incidents so do yourself a favor by getting past stories out of your mind, everyone had something that hurt or something maybe that they feel unpleasant about, like me, I had such life history although it wasn't in that manner but I guess is something that hurt me alot but I can never allow such thoughts to take control of my present, I see each of those memories as the past and I operate on the present and work for a better tomorrow.

No one is ever to be blame in your life and not even your sister, what happens was that, she has tried her best, now it is left for you as her younger brother to take on from where she stop, never forget that she is the pillar which you step on to see afar, I speak to Moses and he was looking at me and was like wOw!.

You are still a young man even as now, so for the that you have realized her mistakes, is better you know that the time is still on your side to be what you ever want to be and go to places you ever dreamt of going, putting the blames on someone is just like you saying you have given up, which is not a good answer to your questions because in our today's world, anything is possible through the introduction of internet and social media platforms, that was when I set an example of an event I attended.

I told him of how I believe in myself the day I went for a job interview even when I was late, it was a minute before the closing time, but for the fact I believe in myself, I was employed, the interviewer was so surprised of where I took so much confidence, I start by looking at the place as just my game room where I used to play PS with my friend's and I Interact with them just as normal and that was it for me, the job was given to me, without wasting much time and efforts, why it was so easy was because, I believe in myself and I never for once feel that anyone hold the key to anybody's success.

Moreover, I operate on the present and I never allow the past events to be an obstructions of any kind to me, I am always cheerful and always keep good energy, so cheer up dear friend Moses, I want you to do the same, life is too short to be holding grudges, let go of the past and lived a free life, where happiness is counted as a success.