[LOH120] Valentine's Date with My Best Friend Jennifer

Ahhh, friend? I have it, but I don't have it, I think? Well, in terms of a friendship where communication is still there or we meet up every year to have a little bonding, I don't have that. One of my two friends is in the U.S., while I am avoiding the other. We are living in the same province but have no time to meet. She already has a family, after all.

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As for the reason why I am avoiding her, It is because I have become an introvert who just loves to stay at home and enjoy all of my time alone. And meeting with an old friend is a no-no for me. Even when my other college classmates, whom I consider friends because of our time together, invited me for a short bonding time, I declined.

I want to meet them and have a little bond, but at the same time, I don't want it. My introverted side is saying no to it, lol. But God knows I really want to, especially those friends that I never met again after we finished high school and college. But if there's one friend that I want to meet today, it's my high school best friend.

She is the friend who gave me my first letter and the one who gave me a fun and exciting high school life. We are like twins in the way we think. And we have the same likes and wants; even in crushes, we have the same. But we don't fight just because of that; we just love to admire them and those crushes; we consider them our motivators.

Thanks to one of our friends at the time, who has a camera, we have this picture together. We both have a copy of this.

I think we only met once at the park here in our town when I borrowed a dress from her for our acquaintance party, first year college. We just talk a little, and actually, I'm a bit awkward because I don't know how to talk to her anymore. Then that's the last meet-up, and there's no second time. although we chatted sometimes. But that's it.

I want to meet her again, spend a day with her, and reminisce about all the good times that we had together. Even after all the bad times we experience, we can talk about them again and laugh at them because of how we cried at that time, thinking that every problem has no solution. But the first thing I want to do is hug her. I'm really not a sweet person, but I think I can do that considering how long it's been since our last meetup.

And after that long hug, I will treat her to a burger house and have some milk tea while we are talking. I will let her tell a story about her family and her kids. She has two kids now; I saw it on her Facebook page last week. Because we can only meet her in Bansud, in our barangay, I will ask her to come with me to the Plaza de Bansud and enjoy the rest of the day and continue chitchatting while having a chip in there. That will be perfect, for sure.

A simple date with best friend, but a meaningful one full of happiness for finally seeing her again. As for the gift, she loves lipstick, so I will include that in my gift. I mean, she loves cosmetics, so I will give her a set of those. She also loves to use liquid eyeliner, just as I do; we used to do that during high school. Although, as for me, that's the only thing I like, nevermind lipstick, lol. and then an eyebrow. Perfect!

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Here's another picture with our classmates. Hope to see you soon best friend ❤️.

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This is my entry for Ladies of Hive Community Contest #120. Thank you so much, @irenenavarroart for the awesome topic this week and to the ladies of Hive.

Topic #1: In a few days, it will be Valentine's Day. Most of the marketing for that day focuses on couples, but we must not forget that Friendship Day is also celebrated. Do you have a special friend you would like to celebrate with? What would you like to do together? What would you give that person as a gift?

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THANK YOU FOR READING!



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Ayyyy naalala ko tuloy bestfriend ko nito.
Miss ko na rin siya.
Ang ganda niyo lang tingnan parang magkapatid. ☺️

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That feeling when you want it but something in you says no, lol! I hope you get to meet your best friend sis and you will do all that you have planned. I'm feeling excited for the both of you 😉

!LADY

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Hahahaha, even if the feeling is strong pero mas malakas yong NO, lol. Yayy, hoping here. Busy pa sya kasi maliit pa bunso nya ee. Di ko pa mayaya.

And thanks sa boost hihi 🥰❤️

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I am also an introvert, and I know that feeling of not wanting to go out to meet with friends and preferring to stay at home tucked up on the couch watching a movie.
But lately, I try to shake it off. Because what it costs is that first step of going out, and then you realize that it's worth it, and you end up having a good time.

I hope you can get together with your friend soon and catch up.

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I hope one day I can shake that off too. I really want to meet her even my other friends. But this inner me is always on the way screaming a NO.

Soon, ᕙ(⇀‸↼‶)ᕗ

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I hope that you can see her soon Ate! I also have a friend na hindi na rin kami nagkakausap since then, bigla nalang .But I am hoping na sana mkaasama ko padin siya. 🤗

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Bigla ko tuloy namiss ung bestfriend ko dzaaii kaso may jowa ako na pwede mag tampo kapag ni date ko siya instead of him hahahaha 😅😅

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Hahaha bakit lalaki ba yan at bat magtatampo ee bff mo naman abaw.

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Yiehhhh, thank you, thank you ❤️. Happy Valentine's Day, in advance.

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You're a true sweetheart @ruffatotmeee! Keep spreading the love and joy on Hive with your Valentine's Day badge.

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There are friends that remain in the soul, no matter that we have not shared for a long time, the affection remains intact and the bond of friendship as well.

I am also a bit introverted, I enjoy spending time with myself and many times I prefer to be at home than to go out.

Nice day.

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