What is your Love Language - Just One Thing

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There are a few basic Love Languages and all of us have either one or a combination that make us feel good, make us feel loved. We can also identify what those close to us relate to as well.

Knowing your Love Language can assist you in achieving everyday in your personal life as well as your vocational life.

Below are 5 basic ones

  • Words of Affirmation – when someone lets you know how loved you are, how good you are at what you do, how well you do in things, compliments etc.

  • Quality Time – spending time with family and friends, being heard, being listened to, knowing that you are part of the team, and knowing that people want to spend time with you.

  • Physical Touch– Being held, holding hands, gentle touches, a brushing against, a good cuddle and a Hug from friends and family

  • Acts of Service – Helping others, knowing that what you are doing is going to benefit others, providing the best quality of you that you can, philanthropy, selfless giving with no expectation of return.

  • Receiving Gifts – Gotta love that new car but the bookmark, essential oil or having something done for you is equally as pleasing and fulfilling

My Love Languages are first – Acts of Service, I love to do what I can and what I see needs doing, as much as possible and I get joy out of seeing people realise that something has been done for them without having let on that it was done and more importantly not letting them know it was me  I believe that every day I provide a service to someone that least expected it.

From those that I care about and love, Physical touch then comes next. I always get a kick out of being touched by someone that I know, it lets me realise that they want to be in my company and that they see me as someone they can trust. A Hug from a good friend is always welcome and appreciated. A gentle touch from my partner, eg: when out shopping and the brush against me unintentionally always puts a smile on my dial, and I love a good hug and cuddle from my partner.

And then for me comes Quality Time, I love to spend one on one time with my partner, we will always go shopping together just so we can spend time together, with both of us having very busy schedules we take whatever moments we can to be in each other’s company to chat and enjoy each other. When I am engaging with others I am doing just that, engaging , which means that I am part of the conversation, part of the discourse, I am listening and participating and wanting to, because that time with others is very important.

Let me know what you Love Language is, and remember, this will always be with you and will guide your life’s experiences

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great post. I like your take on the "Love Language".
Now if we could just get more people to behave this way. What a wonderful world it would be
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Good post, Russell. I don't think anyone can be truly happy until they understand their love language.
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What an inspiring post! For me, words of affirmation and quality service comes first. I love to say positive, encouraging words to others to lift the up because I love hearing same.
Love is a very powerful emotion. Makes our world better.
Thanks for sharing. Have a lovely day. !PIZZA 🙂

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My number one love language would be food! I love cooking up great meals for my loved ones 😊
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I really like this. I appreciate being able to do things for others. Roy and I look for ways to spend time together. And spending time having meals together with my Dad and other family members is enjoyable as well. We go and do grocery shopping, go for walks holding hands and sit and watch a movie together holding hands. Those are my three favorites.
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Never saw Love Language quantified before. Make for an interesting point of view. Thanks for sharing.

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