I Really Want To Avoid Trepidation

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Honestly I don’t know how everyone does it because I am tired and it killing me; am fed up of falling and falling again. It just like this emotions is not meant for me.
You really want to know what this is leading to;
The fear of Relationship.

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Thanks for the #Pob-wotw; making us talk about companion and I saw so many advices but the truth is I am scared of falling again. It like love is not for me because it keep bringing the emotions of Trepidation.

Honestly I don’t know how everyone does it because when it comes to me it doesn’t last for long and the love becomes painful.

  • No more shading of tears.
  • No more senselessness.
  • No more external responsibilities.
  • No mind riots.

I tried to develop another focus to divert my mind set to avoid trepidation. But no matter what I run too; what I see everywhere around me is trepidation and when I run away it catches up faster than I run.

I am really fed up of trepidation in my life. I just want to live normal like every other man. Most times I wish there’s always someone who knows it all and could tell me how to process it all because I am fed up of trepidation emotions.

RESULT.
When it finally happens I think the way out is Understanding between each other and the trust. Am not perfect and I don’t need perfection I haven’t found someone I understand so it can be very stressful. Probably I might not get involved in any mutual relationship anymore.


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The hope still remains that one day I would be out of this stage and progress to another challenge of life. Maybe it just time to give things like trepidation a fresh start and an opportunity to learn more about people and try to take one step after the other.
I would just start following the rules of life;

  • Rule 1: Have fun.
  • Rule 2: Follow rule one.

This way I believe it would free the mind from all this emotional stress and insecurities about this and just move forward.

Thanks you.


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Trepidation is something that can happen to anyone, what we all need is the ability to avoid or come over it which is very important for our mental health and stability, definitely everything mustn't go exactly as we planned and we shouldn't kill ourselves for that rather we should find alternative and improvise.


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I do not think you should have fears about anything..... That goes for relationship too.

Just summon up the courage to go into anything risking it all

Whatever happens, you will learn


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Thanks so much for the wisdom @edzstringz. But most times it just doesn’t feel worth risking and would probably turn out to be the right choice.


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But most times it just doesn’t feel worth risking and would probably turn out to be the right choice.

Follow your heart then, it always knows where to go.... I am sure of it


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Maybe it just time to give things like trepidation a fresh start and an opportunity to learn more about people and try to take one step after the other.

One thing I have noticed in life is that when one rushes into something no matter how wonderful it looks, it won’t last.

Not all that glitters are gold, the only way to find out is by making necessary inquiries before buying into it. I would really recommend taking things slow, learn more about people especially the ones that you are about to get into a relationship with.
Understand their strength and weaknesses, then see if you are ready to bend into their lifestyle. If all this are checked ✅, then I can assure you that when you eventually get into a relationship, it would be worth it


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From my own perspective relationship is a two way tin that is to be pampered by those it connects with.i encourage everyone to handle their relationship with care.


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