Los límites en las amistades [ESP/ENG]
✨Los límites en las amistades/limits in friendships✨
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Hola amigos de Hive❤️, espero se encuentren bien y hayan tenido un buen inicio de año, debo admitir que yo lo comencé bien filosófica haha.
Hello friends of Hive♥️, I hope you are well and have had a good start to the year, I must admit that I started it very philosophical haha.
Pensé en hablar de esto a raíz de una discusión en la cual no quería ni pelear, ni hablar, solo dejar atrás y olvidarme de esa amistad porque siento que tengo claro que quiero y que no quiero cerca de mi vida, a raíz de no querer solucionar nada se me acusó de 'huir' y pues después de eso me puse a filosofar conmigo misma un rato al respecto haha.
I thought of talking about this because of a discussion in which I didn't want to fight or talk, just leave behind and forget about that friendship because I feel that I have clear what I want and what I don't want near my life, because of not wanting to solve anything I was accused of 'running away' and after that I started to philosophize with myself for a while about it haha.
No veo cobarde a aquel que tiene establecido lo que quiere y no teme perder nada porque sabe que esa perdida no será valiosa si no está dentro de lo que quiere. Creo que es algo de valientes y de madurez, obviamente siempre dependerá del problema en cuestión, pero hay motivos en discusiones o actitudes de personas que no nos hacen bien y no tenemos por qué soportarlas y quedarnos allí esperando el milagro de que eso cambie.
I do not see as a coward those who have established what they want and are not afraid of losing anything because they know that this loss will not be valuable if it is not within what they want. I think it is something of courage and maturity, although it will always depend on the problem in question, however, there are reasons in discussions or attitudes of people that do not do us good and we do not have to endure them and stay there waiting for the miracle that changes.
Se convierte en una perdida de tiempo, de paciencia, de un buen rato, por intentar solucionar lo que no se puede solucionar, por eso hay que poner límites y tenerlos a la hora de tratar a las personas, saber cuando un comentario duele y cuándo es una broma, saber hasta cuando la otra persona lo toma como broma como insulto u ofensa.
It becomes a waste of time, patience, a good time, trying to solve what can not be solved, so you have to set limits and have them when dealing with people, know when a comment hurts and when it is a joke, know when the other person takes it as a joke as an insult or offense.
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Eso no quiere decir que no valore cuando alguien quiere enmendar su error, disculparse siempre estará bien, entender (cuando lo hacen de verdad) que hicieron algo mal es un paso inmenso hacia no volver a cometer el mismo error, por eso nunca he entendido a las personas que se disculpan y se muestran arrepentidas pero siguen cayendo en lo mismo, error tras error. Creo que los seres humanos somos un poco complicados a veces.
That doesn't mean I don't appreciate when someone wants to make amends for their mistake, apologizing will always be okay, understanding (when they really do it) that they did something wrong is a huge step towards not making the same mistake again, that's why I've never understood people who apologize and show remorse but keep falling into the same thing, mistake after mistake. I think human beings are a bit complicated sometimes.
Lo importante es, estar con personas que nos sumen, que aporten a nuestra vida cosas buenas, buenos comentarios, constructivos que nos ayuden a crecer a avanzar, a sumar momentos agradables.
The important thing is to be with people who add to us, who bring good things to our lives, good comments, constructive ones that help us to grow, to advance, to add pleasant moments.
Hoy me siento feliz por saber dejar atrás sin remordimientos, saber dejar atrás sabiendo que eso no es lo único que hay y abrirme a personas que me brindan un ambiente de armonía y tranquilidad.
Today I feel happy for knowing how to leave behind without regrets, knowing how to leave behind knowing that this is not the only thing there is and opening myself to people who give me an atmosphere of harmony and tranquility.
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