Why Do We Find It Difficult To Love

Recently I have been finding it difficult to absorb why there's so much hatred hovering in heart of men in this world contemporary age.

So many struggle many people try and finding it difficult to love or replicate pure love to their neighbour. Being the greatest commandment commanded by the creator of the universe, it has been one of the difficult commandment to be fulfilled.

This is so much hatred in the family so much hatred in the company, so much hatred among Nations among countries. But why we did we actually find it difficult to love? That's been the question that has been disturbing my mind recently.

Why.

A lot of people will say I have been loving but truth be told, if you discover and deep well into the love you said you are showing, you will discover that is not love but hatred. You will discover that your love is not pure love but just backed up with lust.

You will surprisedly discover that the love you think you have for your fellow neighbor is backed up with selfish desire and selfish gain. You discover that you want to love but at the end of the day, you find some elements of hatred within. Why?

You claim you love but as time goes on, you begin to see that all what you are doing all this while us to have way to your covetousness gain

You claim out of love you give, but deep down you discover that you were actually expecting something in return which eventually backed up the reason why you gave or give out, is that love.

Why do people find it difficult to love in this our contemporary age. I have seen a lot of people coming to meet me that how do you love. I mean pure love.

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A lot coming to meet me that I have so much tried to love as day goes by but I find it difficult to love and as day goes by, I am about giving up to love because the more I love the more I got betrayed and the more I felt the pain of why loving and the more I just want to stop loving.

look at how our world looks like, so much killing, so much hatred, so much hatred, war happening daily, even nations fighting themselves and conflict of years remains unresolved. it seems pathetic that the more we try to shun away from the concept of love. we just discovered that our world can not do without love.

Now there have been a lot of broken marriages and homes all because there is no love in the family. well at first it might look like love existing in the family but as time goes on, it begins to unfold that the so called thing called love was not love at the end but lust, some was selfish gain and desire and at the end it was not able to sustain the temptations of hatred.

This is a beckoning to our generation that we should embrace the harmony of love than we are doing now