ATTRACTION: BEAUTY, BRAINS OR BODY
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Men have their preferences when it comes to a partner and it varies from one man to another. Some men are attracted to the physical appearance of a woman and the features that she possess. Some don't not care about the appearance and features a woman posses as long as she is intelligent and they vibe well. On the other hand, some pay special attention to both the intellectual side of a woman and her physical appearance - these are the people who are of the opinion that they don't beauty without brains.
For some weeks now, I noticed that I have not been seeing my neighbors girlfriend come around for a while and I asked him what the reason was. He told me they have broken up and that's why I have not seen her around. I felt bad for the two of them because they looked good together and they have been together for quite a while. So, it's so sad to hear such stories. We got talking and he narrated how he was dedicated to the relationship with his time and money, what transpired that led to the breakup and how it has been difficult to cope with the situation.
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I tried to be a crying shoulder for him by cheering him up and whining him because I realized he was getting all emotional. I told him not to worry that I will find a nice girl for him and his response was like I should make sure she has big breasts. I had to beat the topic down a bit because I felt uncomfortable discussing that with him. So, I asked what other qualities should the girl posses and he was like hardworking, fun to be with and honest. He further emphasised that he doesn't date girls with small breasts that I can confirm from the looks of the ex...
This further confirms to me that men are wired to be attracted to what they see. The physical attributes is what attracts most men to women first, just a few see a woman and like her because of her intelligence. The people who likes busty and curvy women have their reasons probably for cuddling purpose, the people who like slim women have their own reasons too. This is applicable to the people who fancy either dark or light skinned women.
However, it's every individual's decision to choose whom they want to have as a partner either based on physical appearance or intellectual capability.
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Its like food, it has an aroma, a look and a taste.
All of them are for pleasure, but which one appeals to you and which one you ll benefit long term from also ... Thats up to the eater.
The write up is a nice one.
Everyone has his own preference but wisdom is required.
I believe beauty, brain and body are important but they all have baggages. It is better to know their heart,
Wisdom is key @jaydr
Smiles... I love this article because it is so true. I get attracted to lady thru her physical features, what makes me stay is if she has good intellectual features too. By the way, boobs attract most guys 😅😂
That confirms how all men are wired.
@starstrings01 you're obviously a boobs GUY. lol. Some guys prefer the ass too. It's all about choice.
Have a great day.
Yeah I know some guys that prefers the ass. But boobs always win. It took dorathy to the finals of BBnaija 😅😂
Intellect is important but it's her packaging that we'll see first.
Honestly, natural beauty is not as important as how well she packages.
I have met a lot of guys who complain about girls and how they can never keep a relationship. I feel pity until I see the ridiculous things they want in a partner which are majorly based on physical appearances.