Are You The Jealous Type? ~ What If I Am?
Don't give me that dirty looks😒 I am being very frank here.
What is mine is mine and what is yours is yours.
I don't want what is yours and I don't expect you to want what is mine to the extent of even dragging it with me.
I might not really be the type that allows jealousy to consume but that doesn't also mean I don't feel that way most times.
Are You The Jealous Type?
Who isn't? Or better still, who wouldn't be?
Although I trained and disciplined myself in such a way that I don't give a grab about what you own or who you are.
The truth is even if I am jealous of something especially people's attention over another, I still wouldn't say or do a thing, I mean there isn't really any point or need for that. But this doesn't in any way mean I will still be the same, I doubt.
I see some people fighting over someone simply because of jealousy and stuff, I mean cut the crab, who does that these days?
If you are a guy or lady and someone is flirting with your partner, let them do it in peace, why bother yourself over nothing?
Or let's take for example you have a friend and you have been doing all you can to your best ability may be in a particular field, yet this your friend isn't noticing or appreciating your efforts but he or she keeps praising another person and the worst of all is that he or she rubs it to your face.
I mean this same person you desire appraisal from isn't giving it to you but rather giving it to another person and telling you all about it.
If you were that friend, tell me wouldn't you feel bad? Or even jealous? But even if you say you wouldn't be jealous, your mind and heart will never be the same again especially if it's a repeated thing.
Personally, I have a friend that used to do that, I didn't mind then because it wasn't my concern but it got to a point that I started feeling bad whenever the friend brings up a topic about the other person and keeps praising and all.
I mean I am here but I have never gotten such praises and I don't even think if someone else gets to know my struggle and efforts from that friend too yet I on this other side was listening to and receiving all the news and praises about another person.
I kept mute and kept on receiving everything rubbed on my face. I never said anything and I wouldn't. I stopped bringing up conversations that will include the other party because I know how it usually ends and it's not something I like.
It kept on for a while until I finally decided that there was no point feeling bad or jealous over another.
If a friend can't see your little efforts and dim it fit for encouragement then such a friend doesn't even deserve your jealousness.
Feel Good About Yourself Even When Others Don't Appreciate You
Like it or leave it, people will always esteem others higher than you no matter if you are their friends or not so why do you want to kill yourself over minute issues of life.
If your partner praises other people yet the least encouragement for you isn't there, then you might have to rethink or reconsider whatever is going on between you two.
No sensible person should make his or her partner feel any less worthy or whatsoever.
Don't make them feel jealous or be dragging words of praise from you with someone else.
If you can't make them feel good about themselves then stop making them feel their worst by constantly rubbing shits on their faces.
Appreciate your partners
Encourage your friends
One way or the other, individually we contribute to the way people feel and how they act out is what we have made of them.
By the way, guys, what's your take on this?
Are you the jealous type? How do you cope with it? And what do you think should be done to avoid feeling that way over something or someone. Thanks in advance for sharing your ideas and opinion, I appreciate you, and I appreciate your presence.
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11 August 2021
I upvoted you, thank you for posting! 👍
-Hi dear @zellypearl ...hehehe Ma'am Wacky, as for me, I am not a jealous type of person in any aspect of life. Maybe there are times that I may feel annoyed or intimidated.BUT, jealousy is far from it. It's not my habit to mind others life as long as it doesn't need my help, and I'm not negatively affected by others businesses hehe. Being sociable is not included ok. What I mean is I could celebrate their success, and everyone has their uniqueness. And that is the negative effect of having the mentality of competing because there is the possibility to become paranoid about everything. And it's not mentally and socially healthy. And if a person or a thing or a circumstance is mine or being to me anyhow? And there is a person or people who are getting its attention Hehehe, then be that way Hehehe, because my stand on that is like this: it's not on my ground anymore, it depends on the person if he/she will also respond on the other..that is where the loyalty and faithfulness come into the scene. And it's not my character to beg for attention hehe. And If that scenario will going to happen to me in the future, I don't know maybe I will be sad, and that's it..because a thing or a person should be owned naturally, let them stay with you by their own free will. If it's in a relationship, it's not good that your partner is betraying you then you will just be there, acting as if everything is good hehe..maybe I could accept him/her again just for a friend but not as a partner anymore. But I will surely not weep on one corner,because of jealousy Hehehe..and envy..jealousy is definitely not good in any kind of relationship, even at work.
Have a blessed afternoon!❤🌷💕
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Oh yeah sure it isn't and I respect your opinion on this.
Thanks for stopping by dear Cherry.
Have a very blessed and wonderful day.