If you can not change a situation change your mind!

Everyone must have passed a difficult situation. The situation is burdensome. How to get away from the situation in safe mode? Can you change the situation itself? If not, change your mind, change the way you treat yourself and environment.

The nun always rises from the east and will sleep in the west. We can not change the nature. Human being is equipped with smart brain and thinking to overcome the worst condition. When the sunlight heats the earth, all people will feel very hot. This situation is difficult but human try to invent some tools to face the heat of the sunlight. People build houses and some shady places. After they get in the house, they still find the room hot. Then human can invent air conditioner to cool the room.

The illustration above is an example how human change their way of thinking to worst condition. We can not take the sun down or put out the sunlight but we can create tools to protect us from the heat of the sun.

It is an adaptation to the nature. How is about difficult situation in life like in financial matters, relationship, works and others. If you can change the condition, change the way to face the situation. You can read what to do. You know all what will make you safe and advanced.

We can not avoid problems. Do you think if you quit a job because you can not get along with tricky and unfair work mates, you will be free from the bad relationship with your work mates? No, you will find other problems after you quit from the job. In this case, you should turn direction in the way to socialize with your work mates. You may feel uncomfortable with your treatment to your work mates but changing the way to socialize will change your mates to you. You should change to make better relationship than making conflicts. It is impossible for you to change one’s character that is built for years. What you can change is how to speak and treat. Put yourself in safe position in making relationship with your work mates. One thing should be remembered that all you do is to make better condition and relationship so that the difficult situation will end and turn to be wonderful and peaceful state.