RE: Fake It Until You Make It .:. Is it good or bad?

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I tend to agree with your assessment of the situation. I think being fake is not only a disservice to your community, it is also setting you up for failure if you are not careful. All it takes is for you to forget something you are faking and then make a statement that goes against what you have said in the past. At that point, you have lost the trust of the people who follow you. Besides, if you let people see the real you, they are more likely to be able to relate to you and trust that you are not trying to pull the wool over their eyes.



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All it takes is for you to forget something you are faking and then make a statement that goes against what you have said in the past.

Yeah... That's like living in constant fear that you will say something that is the opposite of what you said the day before... And you are right, it is a trigger to the "no way back" road, as only one mistake will show the real face behind the mask...

if you let people see the real you, they are more likely to be able to relate to you and trust that you are not trying to pull the wool over their eyes.

Presenting yourself as perfect is probably the most difficult thing to do, as such a thing doesn't exist... On the other side, showing yourself with all your mistakes, failures, and errors will make a much better bond with others...

As my wife is a musician, and she did a couple of piano concerts... Always stressing how she will make a mistake, and always trying to do the piece perfectly... But, the audience likes to hear a mistake or two, as they like to relate with the musician, that he/she is one of them... and it happens to them too...

Thanks for a great comment and sorry for my long reply... :)

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