How To Stop The Comparison Game | Pix Vlogs Ep 35

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Have you ever noticed at times you feel like you’re running a race, trying to keep up with everyone in your circle? Maybe everyone is doing something so you jump in to be a part of things. You take on more & more as you struggle to stay afloat when others seem to be achieving more or just have more exciting lives?

Yeah, I have been there, too….sometimes we get so caught up in the trap of the comparison game. We may feel we are not achieving enough or accomplishing things as quickly as others. In this, we tend to forget what brings us joy or just enjoy our journey along the way.

In this video, we go into ways we can get off this comparison train & get back into alignment with ourselves as I tell my own personal experience with this as well…

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Well, it looks that you have created a video about me... lol... I'm that guy that is running the race... especially the last 2-3 months... Trying to slow down, but then I rush into the sprint at the end of the day...

I'm lucky that I'm not that much in that comparison game, but still, I have a feeling that NOW it's the best time to push... Maybe because all this crypto is at the bottom... Everyone is doing less at these times, and I'm pushing harder and harder...

Anyways, I have to work on that... to slow down a bit... and take a breath...

Thanks for the awesome advice and thanks for the bloopers also... You know that I like them... :)



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Ha ha ha! Well, it wasn't about YOU per se, but I know a lot of deal with this. I have trouble slowing down & jumping into things as well.

You have seen how I get when I get overwhelmed. Not a pretty sight...lol...but once I started practicing mindfulness, it really helped. Sure, I may not be in everything, but I have my sanity back & can actually put myself into the things I am in & love...

I do believe we should do the work... and this is not meaning to just be lazy for sure...but it is important for us to find balance & do what we all have the passion for, not what someone else is into & takes you along for the ride...

Thank you for your kind words as always & ha ha, I DO know you like those bloopers. More incentive to do them...also, unfortunately, it's just my life ... 😂 🤣🧡

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I am happy to know that you are well, I had been wondering where you had gotten to. When lots of folks start running toward something that is when I tend to slow down. I have to take care of me and my funds so that I can have more when I might really need it. Every one needs to go at a pace they can live with..

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Exactly! You have to remember YOUR reason why & it may not always coincide what "everyone" is doing....being true to yourself requires that you go back every once in awhile & reevaluate if what you are doing is what your passion is...I do this quite a bit now...

I have definitely slowed down, especially with the "if they leap, I leap" mentality. It wasn't serving me & now it's amazing how my anxiety has lessened. Funny how that works.... ;)

Thank you for wondering about me...I am always around; sometimes I will be full force & other times, I am more in the background. Just going with the flow, for sure. I appreciate your kindness! :)🧡😻

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You should be proud about your content. You say what a lot of us think, but you just deliver that message so well. ❤️

I don't get caught up in the comparison game, but a lot of what you say is really relatable to me as well. Thanks for bringing it up. Especially the taking a step back to remember yourself why you started and what is important to you.

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Thank you so much for the kind words. Yes, I knew I couldn't be alone in this because it happens so much more than we may think. Of course, there's friendly competitiveness & slight exceptions, but when we get caught up in what others expect of us or other people's measure of success, that's when things can go haywire....

I am much more mindful now than I used to be with the comparison game so I don't struggle as much as I did. But it still can be a real thing. It's just time for all of us to see our own worth & what makes us individually happy :)🧡

Thank you for your support! 🙏🏻💚

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I definitely understand it can be a real thing. Just like projections for future payouts, or reaching a reputation score within a certain timeframe.

The issue with these things is that growth comes in different shapes and sizes. Many creators on different social media platforms have reached a burn out, because they were so much into the algorithm are the type of content that scores the best, they completely lost themselves in the process. Which is something that gets strengthened by the way Hive is currently set up.

And yes, in the end, what makes you happy. A personal connection with someone or 50 upvotes from people you may or may not know. Some of us tend to say both, but if you had to pick one?

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Yes! And while it can be a tough choice sometimes, I would much rather have the connection, hands down. Everything else will come if you remain open to it. Sometimes we can be so "busy" keeping up & trying to be seen, we miss the mark & miss out on what's truly important (at least imho), connecting with your audience & building the relationships along the way.

Keeping up with the algorithm is exhausting. I do have a YouTube channel, & while it is doing decently (& yes, I still work on it), it can be very stressful in remaining with it and trying to be seen continually. But now that I have HIVE & @threespeak, I don't stress as much...:)

Ultimately, everything comes to you as long as you are in that frequency of joy. Funny how that works .... ;) 💚

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what brings us joy or just enjoy our journey along the way.

I've been trying to tell hubs this all week...

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Oh yeah, enjoying the journey is really the whole point. Yes, it's good to have goals and even a plan if necessary. But if you ONLY focus on that or trying to keep up with everyone, then you miss out on the small victories & experiences along the way. Usually, those little things become the bigger things when you look back in hindsight. :)

I hope he listens to you but ultimately, he will have to realize that for himself, which in time, he will. :)

Thank you for stopping by. Stay blessed! 💗

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And as always, such amazing insight and wisdom from you Jenn!
So glad that I have given up Youtube with dinner and have you to watch on 3speak to talk some sense into me instead!

I had a cosmic day off from work yesterday- according to my daily astrology report- which comes out of LV too I think.. anyhoooo, finally I felt a bit more focused yesterday and did a whole heap of work instead on a website that I built and then I was going to jump into Peakd last night, but I got dragged into an extremely unsettling event which left me in shock for a few hours and so ended up having my first night off the Hive in 100 days and watched a heap of sci fi instead...So the cosmos really was telling me to have the night off I think...to slow down and breathe.

And you know, I'm always on a mission, but even more now during the covid lockdown cause I realise that this time off the 'day' job is not going to last forever and there's so many things that I want to get done before it's all over, so I have been more focused and more determined to push ahead that I have in a long time (cause that gets harder as you get older too...lol...) But you have definitely given me food for thought here, so thank you for that!

As always, be well and stay safe! XXX

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You are so sweet! Thank you for your continued support & friendship! 💜

Yes, like you, I have been working hard on my craft as well. As unfortunate as the lockdown has been for the world, there's another way to look at it - if one chose to accept this perspective, it is a time to go within & do the inner work; work on self growth. It's also a time to finally do the things that bring us joy, whether it's business wise or personal. We had all spent so much time in the "matrix" way of life, a rat race if you will. Now, that the old systems are crumbling & many of us are seeing the "matrix" no longer serves us, we are seeing a new truth - our own inner truth. More people are waking up & it grows each day....

Once we get past the division, hate & fear (which don't serve us at all, because they are illusions), we will finally see we are all connected & we have the control of our own destinies....it won't happen overnight but it will happen....

That's why the inner work is crucial now more than ever. It already looks like you're on the way in that & that is a good thing!! :)

Love you girl & keep shining. Just trust & be well. 💜 🤗

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