RE: How To Deal With Negative People | Mindful Mondays Ep 16
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Hi jen, Thanks for the Video , :0 always good to listen, I dont always respond but I do watch :)
I have a story , lol, I always have a story
Years ago I moved with my family to a new area, took a job as a farmhand and was living in an old Shearers quarters, the move was stressfull and the work was hard, one day i went to the supply shop to buy some seed and some equipment, first time in this shop, I was standing in line at the counter , a couple of people in fron of me, when I got to the counter, the guy behind the counter just looked at me and said, Not gonna serve a D head like you , I was taken aback, I had never seen this person, never been into the shop before and considered myself to be an ok persn.
Hmm, I thought, and took my business elsewhere, however it got me thinking, and when I got home, i looked at my then wife and siad, have I been a bit of a D head lately, she looked at me and said yes, So I apologised for my behaviour .
Sometimes the outside world camn quite clearly reflect your inner world :)
As for eradicating negative people out of ones life, fortunately I developed this skill quite some years ago and believ me there can be some really draining people out there.
Oh and as for changes and reaffirming priorities
A majot thing, sort of has just happened in my life 21-09-2020 :) which will mean a major change for me,
so the last quarter of 2020 will see some interesting change
Had to post this via PeakD
Thanks so much for your awesome comment. I love your stories & always get a kick out of them. :)
Your story fits exactly what I was referring to. It can be reflect subtly or like gang busters as you had experienced that time. Sometimes we are so into our lives & heads, we don't even realize what energy we are putting out. Being mindful of it is the first step.
That is great you were able to eradicate people that don't serve your well being. I am much better than I was but still have a little work to do in this area. Some I can't avoid but have minimized my time greatly being exposed to their toxic energy. I don't get as much anxiety in this case.
I am excited to hear that something major shifted in your life! I hope it's a huge blessing. You deserve that! Sending you pixie dust to give you even more prosperity of all forms.
Thanks so much for your support. It means a lot to me & thanks for watching! :) 💜