ATTITUDE THAT MUST BE IMBIBED

There are some words that work like magic that people underestimated their usefulness, words like this are very essential when we are communicating as their failure to use them at the appropriate time can cause one more harm than good.

There are two magically words that we never think deep to understand their gravity. Yeah... I mean gravity. one can say it does not have weight but sincerely they do have weight in the mind of the listener.

The two fantastic words I want us to explore their usage and I want everyone to imbibe and cultivate the habit of using them are:

I am sorry

Thank you

These two words are very essential when we are communicating with both family and non family members.

As little as these two words are they can make or mar someone. Let pick these words one after the other

I AM SORRY

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Saying I am sorry doesn't really mean you have hurt someone or do something bad to them as so many believe this is the only time words like this should be use.

This world can be use in two different contradictory ways.

i. It can be use when you realised that you have actually did something wrong to someone. What kills a man in using this words when they are wrong is ego, which in an another word we may call it pride and this is very common between boss and subordinate, parents and their children, elder brother or sister to the younger ones. It is really simple the fact that you say you are sorry after you realised that you have done something wrong to someone low to you or your standard foesnt mean you have belittled yourself. It will only make things to go on smooth between both party.

ii. It can be use when you are on your right. Oh... this look absurd and ridiculous. Yes it sounds ridiculous. But the truth is that for peace to reign at times when you discover that the person that hurt you does not want to acknowledge this. You just have to say "I am sorry" so that peace can reign between both of you. Again this doesn't mean you don't understand what you are doing or you are a fool.

Irrespective of who is right or wrong we need to learn how to say we are sorry.

THANK YOU

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Thank you is very easy to apply and it should be communicated anytime someone do us a favour. it should be mentioned or voiced out when something good is being done to us. As short as this phrase is, it has a lot of weight when you tell the second partner that has done something nice to you.

Thank you is a word of appreciation that we must learn to use in our everyday statement.

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This two sentences might be short but the power of subtleness and smile they it attract can't be over emphasis. I indulge us all to spread this. It makes the world more simple.

Thank you


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Honestly speaking this is the best. As little as those words are they are very powerful and one always use it when necessary.

Thank you should be use from time to time to show real appreciation

Like wise we need to kill every iota of ego yo submit ourself and to learn how to say i am sorry when we are wrong


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This is very perfect from you ,just like you point out here,saying sorry most occasion does not really means you're on the wrong side.

But base on my own definition I took the word sorry as a means of

Respecting the intimacy with people over your ego

Which means you value the person relationship with you and I must say the egocentric attitude as affected lot of individuals in actually using the right word at the right time.

Just as the word sorry us vital,the word thank you too also means alot as many might have the mindset that it when when you receive gift or valuable items that the word can be used,which is wrong,it can be used to appreciate someone willing or dedication towards ones life or well being


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Ego has been the reason for not wanting to say sorry to someone when we are wrong and we need to really deal with it.


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Definitely it is a bad act when you allow or put your ego first without consider the relationship between you people


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The two is very powerful but it very necessary in the life of human being
To say sorry can save someone's life and to say thank you can blessed you more.
Thank you


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These are indeed powerful words that people find it difficult to utter. The word "I'm sorry" have saved some relationships and could save a lot more when people say the word irrespective of whether we are right or wrong.

Uttering the "thank you" word does show appreciation. Some forget to show gratitude for little things which isn't a great way to go. Applying the word to people when offered help will make them feel acknowledged and it could also help one get more favors


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