Psychology is a key
Psychology, the amazing world which makes interacting with humans, no matter who they are, easier, and it's what successful people use to be even more successful. Psychology has many tricks that can make you feel more powerful and confident between people, so in this post, I will cover some of those psychological tricks that you could use to get along more with people.
I wanted to start with this one since I usually use it in my life. When you sit around many people, and they start talking, try to listen as much as possible. Every person has their own interests, or everyone talks in their way. Hence, in order to be able to deal with people no matter how their personality is, try to listen as much as possible, analyze it in your brain, and then find the right time to join the talking.
Trying to get close to someone?
Getting close to people is hard but getting to know them in the first place is even harder, so if you are planning to get to know someone more and get close to them, then asking that person a favor is key; this will make the other person feel that you trust them and rely on them which will make them trust you back but remember don't ask for a favor generally, just ask that particular person.
Try not to be interrupted while talking
Being with a group of people, no matter if they are close people or not, better not get interrupted while talking then that will silence you will silence you. It really affects the people's look at your personality in general. It might lead them to think that your personality is rather weak, which is something you don't want to happen. The way to deal with a similar situation is to ask that person who interrupted you politely to let you finish what you were saying because you are the only one who can say that since others are listeners for either both of you.
Don't cross your arms or legs
Crossing your legs or, more importantly, arms is a sign of being unconfident. Since body language is critical, you shall avoid crossing your arms or legs while being with people and sit comfortably.
But please don't try so hard you might look awkward
One of the things that might ruin a relationship between two people is a conflict, especially that many people make a big deal out of small conflicts, so avoiding any conflict that might lead to nothing is the right choice always, and even if that other person is saying something wrong, but you know them as hard-headed then better avoiding any conflict with that person.
Those were some psychological tricks/tips that you shall use in order to feel more comfortable with people. In the comments below, I would like to see what is the most psychological trick that you use daily.
Thanks for reading until next time.