Not About POB, LEO or HIVE. Gotta See This!
Hey!
How are you today?
I got out some more and I was thinking about the things I am going to tell you here while having a ... 
...nice view.
Ready to start?
Imagine yourself at a gathering – say, a cocktail party or a concert.
Across the crowded room, you see someone who makes your heart skip a beat.
It’s someone who you know is in a position to help you achieve a big goal of yours.
Someone you would absolutely LOVE to work for or do business with, perhaps...or someone who could invest in your idea or connect you with the right people to make your dreams come true.
Or maybe it’s simply a very attractive or engaging individual who you’d like to get to know better. I had this kind of INSTANT crush in the past....several times....and felt like a (not guilty) huntress, lioness, craveress...that one surely is not in the dictionary.
When you see that person across the room, how do you feel? What do you do?
Do you walk confidently over to them and introduce yourself, eager and ready to act on this opportunity of a lifetime?
Or do you feel an overwhelming rush of anxiety and self-doubt and immediately think, “Why would that person ever want to talk to me?”
If you want to achieve a higher level of success in life, you must develop the confidence and courage required to ACT on such opportunities.
That’s why today I could share my top tips on how to overcome shyness and self-esteem and develop the confidence and faith you need to succeed in this type of social situation! But I won't.
How about you create your own list with tips you think might work for you to gather more self-confidence for your brilliant and shinny system of beliefs?
How about you do this work for yourself?
Envision scenarios that happen or might happen and find a good anchoring point and stimulus for nurturing your self-confidence.
Too many people tell themselves they’re “too shy” or “not worthy enough” to succeed.
But these stories aren’t objectively true at all!
Nor are any of the other stories we tell ourselves to stay “safe” in our comfort zone and hold ourselves back from taking bigger risks and achieving more success in life.
I’m talking about stories like…
If I try, I’ll probably fail.
I’ll never be a good __________ (writer/manager/artist/business owner/father etc.).
I was born unlucky.
True artists never make a good income.
I don’t deserve to be wealthy.
I’m terrible with money.
If you ever find yourself thinking thoughts like these, it’s time to create new stories for yourself!
Because YOU are the one who gets to create your reality. You have the potential to create any sort of life you can imagine for yourself!
All you have to do is think better thoughts about yourself, about the situation you are in at that moment, and about the other person's reactions.
To your boundless potential for success,
YOU ARE GOLD, CHAMPAGNE, not sh33t.
I love this guy's reaction!
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@regenerette wants your votes, your energy to comment, and a cigarette...so I'll go have one right now
The person across the room became my wife. It was 1995. I recently graduated high school and was getting ready for college. She was a junior in high school and the girlfriend of a guy I knew that graduated with me.
It was love at first sight, and life pulled us apart before we even got to know each other at that level. Eventually, they separated, but again, the service called me, and I was out to sea for five years out of a 10-year enlistment into the navy. I saw the world, and it meant almost nothing to me without her by my side.
We're married now with two beautiful kids and a vicious 10-lb Maltipoo attack beast. There's a lot to our story, but suffice it to say you are correct. You'll never know you can reach the stars until you extend your hand to the sky. You may need a ladder or something equivalent.
Thanks for the encouraging post.
What can I say more than the fact that I am so grateful that you have shared this with me?
It seems that you got yourself your shinning star and have a beautiful, happy life.
I am sending you and your family warm greetings and a hug for each member.
May I find you again in the full joy of living!
Thank you so much for your comment and for reading this!
Yep. I got that shining star and all the realities that come with it. Your comment about looking across the room brought about the memory. I couldn't help it. It was weird. I was there all over again. After I wrote my comment, I showed it to my wife. It brought about a pleasant conversation about the past as we sat with the kids watching their ABC shows. I felt synchronicity between all of us as we spent time together. The feeling is difficult to engineer, and I'm thankful for the inspiration your post brought.
Now that's real feedback! Knowing that I might have contributed somehow to these things makes me happy and reading this in the morning now...ah...it really gets to my heart.
I am glad to know that!
I was telling myself these things, putting a chain and sabotaging my own patterns.
I had a fixed mindset , A prison that my mind has created.
until l I've started to question my self and look and search for answers for the awakening to slither into my self.
reading has served me well, especially self-enhancement books, it showed me the flaws in me that i was totally oblivious about.
luckily I'm shifting to a greater consciousness better than the old one.
and change doesn't happen overnight.
thank you @regenerette
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Isn't it better than putting yourself down under the whip?
We're self-inflicting pain and dissapointment in your beliefs, sometimes we are not even aware of that. It's all good. You're better for yourself now, kinder, braver maybe and ----> to #self-love