Keep it simple

We have a long way to go here and we can't do that by living alone. As a social being we live in the societies with other people’s surrounding us.In our daily life we communicate with them,trade with them, make relations, play games and so on. On the way of that we often mess up things sometimes. We need to handle those in a proper way so that it doesn’t lead to any kind of chaos and conflicts among us. For those we need to keep those simple and solve in that in a proper way.I believe that 'The more you dig something the more it will need to fill that.' So if you start chaos or conflict then it will also take so much trouble to solve that.

Let me explain that with a funny example which i experienced a few days ago.
I have a friend who is married. So most of the days he hangouts with us and it becomes late at night to go home. So one day one of my friend who is a little dumb, he texted that friend to meet us in the evening. From his phone his wife replied and the conversation was something like this.

Wife: For you guys my husband doesn’t stay at home,he remains out all day long.
Dumb friend: What should we do? Your husband’s girlfriend insist us to make him come out to meet him. We are not at fault.
Wife: (silent no more replies)

As we know girls are really a very jealous and suspicious type. She knows he has nothing to do of such but still the had a fight started over fun and lead to quarrel. You know that how we turn our moods from good to bad instantly over silly matters. So they also had something of that kind and it went terrible. So after this my friend didn’t say anything to that dumb one. He just remained quite and later he talked sitting with him and forbade him to do such things in future. He knows that what has happened can't be undo but he can make him warn for the coming days not to repeat such kind of things. Hahaha, that was all.

So look at the facts that we can't undo what happens in our past but what will happen is on our hand for the future. So if somethings goes wrong we can simply figure out the bug and fix it without any complexity. Yeah,everytime we can't put this on every situation, sometimes there needs something else as per the situation but at least we may try to do that.

In my life perhaps i am too bit simple. In some matters where i should react i stay very much silent like a dumb. Later i realise what i did and sometimes hit on the wall. Then i also figure that this time again i did that dumb shit by hitting myself, why didn’t i do what was needed at that time. Yeah i am too much aware to keep everything simple to pass unnecessary complexity. I always prefer to be frank and being simple, i don't like coming in highlights, making everything complex, playing with the facts to make others fall on dilemmas. Personally i dont like it and i also suggest others to ignore such kind of things.

That was all i had to express to you guys on this topic. I hope you guys will agree with me. If you disagree or have anything to say on this matter feel free to let me know through comment, i will be very much happy on hearing from you. Thank you for your time. Have a nice day.