Life goes on.

Life is beautiful yet full of some disappointments too. Ah! At the start there is the word "disappointment" which looks bad, doesn’t it? Hahaha. Let's go through it as I am gonna talk about something like this today. Everything doesn't go as smoothly as we do expect to be always.

There are a lot of good things going on in our life and some bad ones too. These two complete us. We can't just expect only one thing to keep the other one forgotten. Sometimes those bad or disappointing ones hit us hard and we do feel the pain. Not always! If our nearest and dearest ones are the reason, that is the one which hits more hardly. Most of us do have a don't care mentality which applies to the mass people living around us. But also we do have a close circle of people, those people mean something more than the average. Personally, I do have such an important level for the people around me. If someone from your close circle doesn’t give you the same importance or the value you have for them feels disappointing. It looks like you're the one who cares for them and you don't hold any value to them. They will ignore you easily or you can mean nothing special to them as you do and expect. You will keep telling people that he will go to a certain extent for you but he will not even bother for your cause and that will leave you as a mockery to the people.

Suppose you have a close friend to who you give a lot of importance. His self-respect means a lot to you. Even in his absence, you can't bear an ill-talk against him. You go and fight for them, you stand for them, you argue for his respect. You don't care if that will make him pleased or not, you just care about his respect in his absence. But trust me, you will find some of those friends making fun of you in your back let alone saving your respect. Those hurts! Really they do. Here you are fighting for them as you consider him to be your close ones and on the other side, they don't even give a shit to you. The irony of life, Hahaha.

Well, you would say that everyone is not the same and we should choose the suitable ones for us. Yeah, I do agree with you completely. But the problem is you can't be sure who are the perfect friends for you and who isn’t until you encounter this type of situation. These situations show us the true importance of you in someone else's life. Let me tell you an example, I have a friend who belongs to a conservative family yet she does have an Instagram account. Instagram does have a feature called "Close Friends " where you can choose some friends and particularly share content with them. So whenever she shares stories selecting that option, the friends on the close friend's list can see that "Close Friend " tag too. Damn! That gives you a feeling that she does choose you over most of the people and you have extra importance or preference whatever you can assume. So this was a positive feeling that we all do expect from the opposite one whom we care about.

So it's true that we do have the positive and the negative ones too. Because of the negative ones, positive ones hold their difference and value. I also know that everything doesn’t go as we expect it to go or we desire the paths to be. In some cases, they don't work out and we feel the shake which hurts badly. Whatever, this is life, despite everything it goes on and on.