Stop expecting start accepting

Life is beautiful as we are. We work,we dream,we desire for something. We are social being.we get in touch with hundreds of people daily. Some are close to us and some are not. Different relationships with different kind of people, in that way we have different expectations too from those different relations. In life its normal to expect the coming outcome of time but its not fixed that all your expectations will come in true. Sometimes it goes in another way from what we had expected . We can't blame our life or anything for that, we should accept that outcome and hope for better again.

Everything we do in life we have a expectations from that. Suppose you have given an exam, you will be expecting a result based on your exam performance. Sometimes it meets your expectations and sometimes it doesn’t. You may also see another example which is very much seen around us. You like a girl,specifically you love her. You wanna be the life partner of her so you proposed her. So now you will be expecting from all your heart that she agrees to your proposal but there is no surety of that. If she agrees then congratulations on that you are succeed on your expectations. If she doesn’t what then? Well, In that case you have to accept that consequence.

Let me give an example from when i have learnt this line "stop expecting start accepting" to apply in my life practically.
Well,in the last year i was a candidate of University Admission. I was determined with my preparation for the upcoming exams that i will be succeeded.I thought i will get a seat.You may assume that in that time i was little overconfident.Yeah, its true i was.And today i regret for that. So i have given exams in few Universities and everywhere i didn’t fail but i was in the waiting list. That too not very far it was close but not enough to ensure a seat for me. From then i am learning to stop expecting and started accepting the consequences of life.I have also started planting the seed for a better outcome tomorrow. I know its my fault that i was not well enough for a seat but i was expecting one with too much dreams but in the end it didn’t work for me.So i had to accept the outcome.

Well in my topic i have a confusion to clear which may arise in your head. As per my explanation should we stop expecting? No! Not at all. Without expectations how will we live? We do a lot of work with a hope of result. If you don't expect anything how will you get any encouragement to fulfill your target.Obviously we should expect. I highly encourage for that. Here i was trying to explain the negative outcome. If something don’t match with our expectations then we should stop expecting on that and start accepting with whatever it has came to us. If you want try again,expect for a better result and be successful. If not then accept whatever the result is.

In my life i have seen many desperate people who can't think anything beside their extractions. They wont accept anything if that is not as per his desire. Sometimes people takes many unbelievable steps out of this problem. Didn't you seen people committing suicide due to problems in relations or family? What would have happened if they had accept that situation in a best possible way. I know different people have different kind of problem, some are big, bigger and biggest but there is a solution of every the problems like all other's one without suicide. Besides that we also take many unwanted steps if our actions doesn’t fulfill our expectations.

So guys that's all for today. Hope you guys got it what i have wanted to say.In short i have said that we have to accept the outcomes if that is not as per our expectations because that's the right path. Hope you all will also agree with my thoughts and that i have explained here. If you have anything to say in this topic feel free to say through comment. I will be a lot happy on hearing from you. Thank you for your time. Follow me to get connected with me.